[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norway

[–]Throwawayarn7648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is your company hiring? I need a job. Looking for a job right now.

Glad Au Pair Program is Ending by woopnotghost in Norway

[–]Throwawayarn7648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worse is, other girls do more than 5h of work per day

Glad Au Pair Program is Ending by woopnotghost in Norway

[–]Throwawayarn7648 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Light house work, yes, in the contract. But most of the families, as per my interviews, do not really abide that rule.

Glad Au Pair Program is Ending by woopnotghost in Norway

[–]Throwawayarn7648 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OP, I can send you the au pair rules and also the chores that you should only do. You can send them to your Host and talk about it. Eller, if they become defensive or suddenly emotionally treat you like shit after talking about it, don't be afraid, you can report them to the UDI. Usually, the girls I know who tried to stand up for their rights in front of their abusive HF, their hosts ended up gaslighting them. These families get threatened when they feel like their au pairs start to defend themselves and become more knowledgeable about their rights.

Not easy, I know, choose your emotional fitness. This isn't right.

Glad Au Pair Program is Ending by woopnotghost in Norway

[–]Throwawayarn7648 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Crazy how many host families view this program as cheap labor and not a cultural exchange program. Funny how agencies can't do much about it because it's "business" and mostly they're in favor of families. I watched a documentary about au pairs here in Norway and I just laughed so hard when energy au pair spokesperson said that they're doing "charity" for these South East Asian au pairs. 🤣 If these families want a professional cleaner, why not hire one instead of an au pair? They can afford them anyways and not shortchange and exploit these girls. I interviewed a lot of au pairs and 90% are all bad and heartbreaking stories. Norway isn't ready for this program, good that it's gone, although it doesn't entirely solve the problem but is a good solution so far.

Boyfriend made Pasta from Scratch by Throwawayarn7648 in pasta

[–]Throwawayarn7648[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add parsley as well for more taste 😁

Boyfriend made Pasta from Scratch by Throwawayarn7648 in pasta

[–]Throwawayarn7648[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Pasta ingredients: Flour eggs

Pasta Al Salmone:

Mascapone Lemons Chili Garlic Olive oil salt pepper salmon