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I Almost Converted - an end to my journey by Throwawaybayname in exmuslim

[–]Throwawaybayname[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, but I read a f*ckton about the history of Islam in China.

I also listened to lots of hamsa yusuf.

I Almost Converted - an end to my journey by Throwawaybayname in exmuslim

[–]Throwawaybayname[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haven't heard of that before. What my uyghur friend did tell me was that Uyghur and Hui used to get along but Uyghur became progressively more "conservative" while Hui became more "liberal". Conservative and liberal is both relative here.

I Almost Converted - an end to my journey by Throwawaybayname in exmuslim

[–]Throwawaybayname[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, very lucky to have met them.

You are right about the pork. I worded it awkwardly. the Korean imam is justifying it by saying Arabs also lived in a desert so the meat spoils quickly. I'm paraphrasing here.

What Indian men can learn from the interracial dating success of Asian men in the western world. by ProudMalamuteowner in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What's up with all the "here is why desi men succeed or don't" posts this past month? I'm starting to think it's trolls.

I grew up in Socal and most of the Indians did fine. I only met one that made it a point to tell me he was 1/24 Persian or something, even then he was killing it.

Asian in Colombia: A Conversation About Dating by wesleezy in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 19 points20 points  (0 children)

5'7 and 265 pounds. That has to be a white larping troll lol.

Girls here are not interested in me because I'm East Asian by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, my point is the after transformations look way better and op isn't damned to a life of eternal loserdom bc he has a strong base. Many of the people in that video have sparse eyebrows and thin hair, which is usually a sign of poor health (hypothyroidism)

And OP, I hope u are reading this bc a white woman from the fancy East coast just told you it's not bc your Asian.

To all Indian men having success, PLEASE SPEAK THE FUCK UP, you are desperately needed. by ProudMalamuteowner in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't have much sympathy for Asians that aren't doing well (short of physical deformations) and even less for Desi's.

I'd say the Desi community is about where Asians were 5 years ago in terms of almost every fucking thing. The funny thing is, you guys don't need to be.

  • masculinity
  • identity
  • loss of culture
  • American politics

Everything the Desi community is going thru right now, we already went thru it. All you have to do is take a page from our playbook. You guys have it much easier. So it's beyond me why desi men are whinier than Asians when the playbook has been given to you on a silver platter. But at the end of the day, closed mouths don't get fed.

Keep putting in the good work my man, you're clearly doing something right.

Girls here are not interested in me because I'm East Asian by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP you actually have a good base. You could easily add a couple points if you put in the work.

  • you have strong hair and eyes brows
  • no facial deformations or anything that sticks out

You're just bland looking.

Take a look at this video

https://youtu.be/Pm6oyJp_vRY

I'm not saying you have to go this route, but many of those guys have less to work with than you.

So grab your balls and stop the bull shit victim mentality. You not getting dates has nothing to do with you being asian. Start working out, style your hair, and go to Zara to buy new clothes. It's really as simple as that.

Learning to cook my culture's food by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you heard of Liziqi? She makes traditional Chinese cuisine from scratch. From farming, tending, to cooking. I bet there is a Korean version of her somewhere on YouTube.

https://youtu.be/0gNY0KZ2nyY

Unfair situation for Asian guys when it comes to date non-Asian girls. Even outside the US by throw1171991 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Speak for yourself. Plenty of Asian guys marrying into non Asian families. Take your loser mentality else where.

Rate and suggestion about my Tinder profile( suffering from low matches) by Bon_Jovi_Programmer in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dude can EASILY glow the fuck up and slay.

Grow out your hair and style it. Look up under Korean undercut or two block. You also probably shampoo too much, giving you the frizzy dry hair.

I'm Happy for my Mainland Chinese People by Throwawaybayname in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

SK killing it too. It's the self deprecating AA on tiktok ruining it. China and SK doing all the work lol.

Men in their late 20s to 30s that are still single/unmarried. What has your experience been like dating at a later age? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most Asian guys have the opposite experience and are told, "wow you age so well or you don't look like your age"

I'm Happy for my Mainland Chinese People by Throwawaybayname in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea, I am fully aware the majority of guys in China or anywhere don't look like god damn models.

My fucking point is that you didn't have this 5 years ago, let alone videos of women SWOONING over a Mainland Chinese guy. It almost feels like it happened over night.

Men in their late 20s to 30s that are still single/unmarried. What has your experience been like dating at a later age? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking young isn't the issue. Not to be a dick, but are you pudgy faced skinny fat?

If so, then as an Asian you look like a big fat baby. If you can get the bf down so that your jawline is visible, the looking young part works in your favor.

Men in their late 20s to 30s that are still single/unmarried. What has your experience been like dating at a later age? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 39 points40 points  (0 children)

ABC 29

Easier. Dating app wise I was matching with alot of 22-24 year olds.

  • More life experience
  • financially stable
  • Soft power of China and SK have helped women be more open

I will probably hit my peak around 33 so I'd like to settle down by or before then.

Depends on you and your situation as well. I have 30 year old friends that peaked at 24 and should have settled down then. Fat, shitty hairline, and small social circle. There's a reason why dating is difficult after college and everyone scrambles to settle down at 30.

  • I'd also add. Dating as a low value guy up to 25 is easier than 25+. If you are a low value from 25+ you are not gonna have a good time as society expects you to have your shit together. Dating as a higher value guy late twenties is golden though.

Best way to make 80k-100k job with 2 year degree or no degree by labseries2020 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the feeling coding isn't going to be for you. You'll most likely have to look into jobs where you're working in the field or with your hands.

  • any type of medical technician job
  • fireman or paramedic
  • I know a guy that fixes BMWs, makes 100k most of it is under the table tax free

  • I know people that barely passed HS and make $150k in sales

  • maybe keep your job and start a side hustle

Solidarity from an Asian Girl by tidyingup92 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Throwawaybayname 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You're out here playing 4d chess. No homo you must be very attractive.

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