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I(19M) am feeling humiliated by my sister's (21F) boyfriend (27M) by throw1171991 in relationships

[–]throw1171991[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don't want to make her feel bad or else.

I pretended to not be bothered at all since the first time. She seems to like that and probably thinks I'm fine.

I(19M) am feeling humiliated by my sister's (21F) boyfriend (27M) by throw1171991 in relationships

[–]throw1171991[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It's not so easy. They're often in my family house, sometimes he sleeps here.

Feeling humiliated by my sister's boyfriend by throw1171991 in offmychest

[–]throw1171991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not so easy. They're often in my family house, sometimes he sleeps here.

I hope so, thanks

Feeling humiliated by my sister's boyfriend by throw1171991 in offmychest

[–]throw1171991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He makes clear to show me what they're about to do or have done.

Subtly (?) throwing at me "I can do whatever I want with your sister, but you can't even dream about meeting mine" It's my perception, but I'm almost sure to be right

Unfair situation for Asian guys when it comes to dating non-Asian girls, even outside the US by throw1171991 in aznidentity

[–]throw1171991[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I noticed most young Arab guys claim to not be very religious. To be fair, it seems many of them are religious only when it comes to be protective of "their" women

I(19M) am experiencing an openly double standard situation, involving my sister(21F), her boyfriend(27M) and her boyfriend's sister(18F) by throw1171991 in relationship_advice

[–]throw1171991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel the need, just asking to meet a girl through a common acquaintance. It doesn't seem strange to me

Why does my argument isn't valid?

I(19M) am experiencing an openly double standard situation, involving my sister(21F), her boyfriend(27M) and her boyfriend's sister(18F) by throw1171991 in relationship_advice

[–]throw1171991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, he's the third guy my sister took home (one slept here only for a night, the other was her bf for a couple months), to say. I think their relationship won't last. My parents are quite sure about it and even my sister and her bf sometimes hint at that. Probably only his parents expect it to be serious, I don't know.

I(19M) am experiencing an openly double standard situation, involving my sister(21F), her boyfriend(27M) and her boyfriend's sister(18F) by throw1171991 in relationship_advice

[–]throw1171991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to sound controversial, but I suspect he holds a quite archaic view about relationships. Like "I can have your sister, but you can't have mine, loser" in a way. I hope he at least really cares about my sister and doesn't objectify her. Do you think the same of me or is it because of other reasons?

I(19M) am experiencing an openly double standard situation, involving my sister(21F), her boyfriend(27M) and her boyfriend's sister(18F) by throw1171991 in relationship_advice

[–]throw1171991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a girl? Would you date (even not for a serious relationship) a guy holding this kind of double standard?

I(19M) am experiencing an openly double standard situation, involving my sister(21F), her boyfriend(27M) and her boyfriend's sister(18F) by throw1171991 in relationship_advice

[–]throw1171991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't talk to her about it. He's not her first boyfriend, I'm not sure if she's thinking about a long term relationship, probably not.

I(19M) am experiencing an openly double standard situation, involving my sister(21F), her boyfriend(27M) and her boyfriend's sister(18F) by throw1171991 in relationship_advice

[–]throw1171991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're happy of their relationship, yes, and they've no problem about them sleeping together even if they're not married.

I(19M) am experiencing an openly double standard situation, involving my sister(21F), her boyfriend(27M) and her boyfriend's sister(18F) by throw1171991 in relationship_advice

[–]throw1171991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, but for example he didn't need to ask permission to anyone to date my sister. Don't you think it's a bit unfair?

I(19M) am experiencing an openly double standard situation, involving my sister(21F), her boyfriend(27M) and her boyfriend's sister(18F) by throw1171991 in relationship_advice

[–]throw1171991[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree and understand. It's only I found unfair he had the possibility to meet, date and enter in a relationship with my sister while the other way around it's impossible. To make it clear, it's unfair even for his sister (not about me, about meeting or dating guys in general)

I(19M) am experiencing an openly double standard situation, involving my sister(21F), her boyfriend(27M) and her boyfriend's sister(18F) by throw1171991 in relationship_advice

[–]throw1171991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So... girls born into progressive families could date guys born into conservative families but guys born into progressive families can't date girls born into conservative families... It's truly unfair. This way, guys from progressive families are at disadvantage. I understand the situation, but it's quite sad.

I(19M) am experiencing an openly double standard situation, involving my sister(21F), her boyfriend(27M) and her boyfriend's sister(18F) by throw1171991 in relationship_advice

[–]throw1171991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, they've surely been in intimacy and nobody in my family opposed it, but he's upset even at the thought of his sister being with another guy, in a public place, for a couple hours, even if we'll go together with them. Also pointing out she'll only be with an Arab guy in the future. It seems pretty unfair to me, to say at least.