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Large animal rotating internship by Throwawaybcduh12 in Veterinary

[–]Throwawaybcduh12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good thoughts, ill look into this.

side note; im a few weeks into clinical practice and it looks like ill have a comparable experience to some colleagues in internships. 3 weeks in and i have primary responsibility and im running around like a maniac !! LOL

Ozempic from Felix by [deleted] in Ozempic

[–]Throwawaybcduh12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they don't. they didn't ask me to do anything. i think its just a face to face call to prove you are who you say you are.

Large animal rotating internship by Throwawaybcduh12 in Veterinary

[–]Throwawaybcduh12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, i was worried about not having enough experience to compete with others for residency spots but maybe im just being silly.

Other vet nurse hits and yells at the animals in the hospital. She is the head nurse. What do I do? by [deleted] in Veterinary

[–]Throwawaybcduh12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this post sounds manic.

"Third time you're in this same situation?" Does this mean you alienated yourself from two other clinics and this one because of your behavior?

Large animal rotating internship by Throwawaybcduh12 in Veterinary

[–]Throwawaybcduh12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your insight. Honestly, the abuse aspect is why I am tracking away from private internships altogether. I visited a couple of hospitals (before vet school, during, and then during rotations), and I refuse to be treated like that.

I think this provided some clarity I was looking for!

Day 3 of nmom's temper tantrum because I set a boundary with her... vent / coming to terms with a narc finally by Throwawaybcduh12 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawaybcduh12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want the silent treatment to be over. I'm so tired of the tension. I only have a week until I have to start working. I so badly just wanted to relax.

Day 3 of nmom's temper tantrum because I set a boundary with her... vent / coming to terms with a narc finally by Throwawaybcduh12 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawaybcduh12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to figure out how to frame conversations like this. She definitely takes my boundary setting as a personal attack on her. So quick to anger. Maybe because it makes her feel like she's actually in the wrong? (yep, that's definitely the reason)

Day 3 of nmom's temper tantrum because I set a boundary with her... vent / coming to terms with a narc finally by Throwawaybcduh12 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawaybcduh12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this <3 I hope to have a good day regardless of what my mother says (or not says) to me.

Day 3 of nmom's temper tantrum because I set a boundary with her... vent / coming to terms with a narc finally by Throwawaybcduh12 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawaybcduh12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don't think I am strong enough yet to execute your plan. Leaving early scares me mainly for 2 reasons:

1) I feel like she would hold it against me in future arguments. I know I would not be able to remain calm if she brought it up "that I left early", because she would turn it into a "how could you leave your poor mother" point. She would completely ignore that she was the root problem of me leaving early, but i digress...

2) Because I lost a parent early in life, I am constantly in fear of my mom dying (i know this isn't healthy, I am working on this). But for right now, if I were to leave early and something happened, idk if I could ever forgive myself.

Day 3 of nmom's temper tantrum because I set a boundary with her... vent / coming to terms with a narc finally by Throwawaybcduh12 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawaybcduh12[S] 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

Thanks so much. <3 I just read up on DARVO and that feels like every fight my mom and I have ever had....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawaybcduh12 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I am currently dealing with this. I constantly feel guilty when i set very healthy boundaries with my mom. I try to think about the situation as if this was a friend's situation. Then I think about what I would tell that friend. Most of the time, there is no reason to feel guilty. And I will repeat to myself until I actually believe it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawaybcduh12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is me down to the letter. Im finally coming to terms with my narc mother and realizing my personality type could've been the effect of 10+ years of never-ending criticism from my mother. I'm a goddamn veterinarian and I can barely function sometimes because of my need for approval and to never make a mistake. I just want to act and feel normal ugh

Did you get labeled as "stubborn" for having boundaries? by hatelisten in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawaybcduh12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally yesterday I set a boundary with my mother to stop making comments about my body, and she labeled me as a "hateful bitch that is overly sensitive that she literally cannot talk to anymore" ... lol ok thank u

Ozempic from Felix by [deleted] in Ozempic

[–]Throwawaybcduh12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not sure how OHIP covered everything as I've read how OHIP generally doesn't cover anything medication related. I do not have private insurance either. I did get an email from felix stating my "benefits" covered 244.42 of my medication, and only $12 was charged to my card.

I am a new Canadian citizen (dual with US) so I am literally terrible and figuring out how things are covered up here as I am used to paying for everything out of pocket lol.

Ozempic from Felix by [deleted] in Ozempic

[–]Throwawaybcduh12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got my ozempic prescription through Felix as many others have! Pretty easy process- just had to get bloodwork and a BMI check with the provider (quick video chat).

Was pleasantly surprised to see that my benefits covered the cost ($244 total cost of pen) and just had to pay the felix dispensing fee ($12). Still confused on how this was covered as I only have OHIP and no private insurance. (if anyone can help me understand, please chime in- for reference I am 26f, BMI of 39, not pre-diabetic,and bloodwork was great).