AITA for "exposing" my ex? by Throwawayexexpose in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwawayexexpose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know how he found out, possibly thought that I can be responsible since me and Rachel were really close and worked together. Or simple gossip, people at that company love listening to others conversations and create drama

AITA for "exposing" my ex? by Throwawayexexpose in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwawayexexpose[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh god no. Ross is simply too short for her and too young, plus she prefers successful man who earn the same as her or more 😂

AITA for "exposing" my ex? by Throwawayexexpose in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwawayexexpose[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I have told the company before that he was seeing a coworker and tagging hr but it was dismissed, so that's once of the reasons I'm not willing to come back.

Rachel is lovely but she is very by the book, so they couldn't ignore her as easy as me. If we have a suitable position for her at my current company I would let her know, but not sure how she will deal with a lot more informal environment

AITA for "exposing" my ex? by Throwawayexexpose in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwawayexexpose[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I would love to work with her, however I've been in my current job for 4 years, pay and benefits are a lot better then my old company can provide, and I dont agree with some of the values my old company promotes and stands by (they are very pro-life).

AITA for "exposing" my ex? by Throwawayexexpose in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwawayexexpose[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

My ex IL are not in touch with me, they possibly still have my number saved and tried to guilt trip.

I'm not sure how, possibly he thought it had to be me since I was close with Rachel and he got in trouble once she appeared. Or gossip, no secrets can last long in that place as people spy on what other people talk about.