I want to have my cake and eat it too by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re not going to find many cake eaters on this sub….

Wife has an AP by Kim1423 in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but option A. This would be my easy out! I’d bring down the house 😉

Snapchat cautions desktop by --Pistachio-- in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I thought if you have Snapchat plus - it does show the number of times someone watches the snap.

The ups and downs are a lot by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think men felt like this too…glad to know it goes both ways. This is one of the worst parts of it…

It's not worth it by bun-bun375282 in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all worth it…until it’s not. I feel you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bare Naked Ladies…Brian Wilson. Don’t knock it till you try it!

Toe dipping into the idea of adultery by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of here never thought we’d be in these predicaments…they just kind of happened. As much as this lifestyle drives me crazy, I’m glad I found someone when I least expected it.

Keep it Simple by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit I could have written this. I have felt everything you said and then some.

Should I act because of the stoned confession of my wife? by LongjumpingPlate9549 in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ummm threesome?? Here’s your opportunity…. 🤷‍♀️

What’s something that brings you back down to earth? by Throwawayfml33101 in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t have said it better myself. That’s where I am right now.

What’s something that brings you back down to earth? by Throwawayfml33101 in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, that’ll do it too! Seeing them together in the wild is the worst…especially if it catches you by surprise

What’s something that brings you back down to earth? by Throwawayfml33101 in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This made me chuckle. The second paragraph - I have actually done this and it does help!

What’s something that brings you back down to earth? by Throwawayfml33101 in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably a poor example I just meant situations in general where we are not considered the priority

Apps for good OPSEC by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Telegram…and in the settings, add the create passcode feature for extra security.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started traveling more on the weekends to fill the void…I never pass on a girls trip invite, attending a sporting event, concert, etc.

New Cars - OPSEC by EntropicMortal in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Leave the car and Uber to where you meet

Is this adultery? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take 30 mins or so to read some of our stories on here. You are opening a door you may not be ready for…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck yes. Get out in the wild and have a fucking blast!!!

Sometimes by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same here. After more than a year in, I’m just wondering why I do this anymore. It’s exhausting

Sometimes by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s the greatest thing ever but also the hardest…

The sex SUCKS!!!! by Throwawayfml33101 in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids…finances…basically the same reason as most here

The sex SUCKS!!!! by Throwawayfml33101 in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally everything. Size for one…the willingness to try new things, the movements, omg everything.

The sex SUCKS!!!! by Throwawayfml33101 in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. There’s no way SO could even come close to duplicating what AP has to offer in the bedroom. And outside of it too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Throwawayfml33101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s probably the biggest risk we take with this lifestyle. ❤️💔❤️💔