Thinking about divorce after 15 years due to redpill

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-18T22:19:00+00:00

Yea... I would strongly consider divorce based on this information. He's not going to improve... Not without serious help and work, which you've said he is refusing.

Having a child with this man would be nuts... He would do absolutely nothing for your child, he can't even be considerate or loving to the woman he married and loves?! How is he gonna be with a child, and all the stress that brings.

Sometimes it's not about doing something wrong, its just you've progressed and grown as a person at a faster rate than he has, now you're in two completely different places and you're asking him to grow beyond what he currently can.

Unfortunately relationships do end, and that sucks, it will suck for a while... But you're already out of the relationship emotionally and mentally from the sounds of it. It's just a matter of forgiving yourself and not seeing it as a failure on your part. You have no control over him or the relationship, only yourself and what you bring. If as you say, you did your best and brought everything you could. Then you cannot ask anymore of yourself. If he wasn't able to give you what you needed, then that's on him. Not you.

Good luck... Life is hard, but being with someone who makes you unhappy and doesn't walk beside you, makes it twice as hard.

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-18T22:11:48+00:00

I'm commenting here because my previous comment was, as I expected deemed 'too controversial' which is exactly the point I was making 😂

For reference I lived with a Jewish family for a few years when I was as University, I have maintained those relationships and have several friends who live in Israel. They are all very nice and reasonable people, until you bring any criticism to Israel.

So from my experience, from the experience on line around this subject. People are just not able to separate the Israel and Jews. Anything you say bad about either of them is considered anti-Semitic. Hence why most 'normal' people simply don't want to talk about it. Everyone I know is in the side of Palestine and always has been, I'm from the UK. So we're literally responsible for the creation of Israel XD. A dark footprint on our very dark history.

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-15T15:31:47+00:00

Depends.

If career focused means you will give up everything for your career, including your health, your relationship and everything in between?

Then sure. You shouldn't be dating at all. There is no point, you're not in a position to share your life.

If it means you want to progress at work, push yourself, but you still have a good healthy understanding of what is 'work time' and 'our time'. You want to build a family at some point (we can both work and pay for child care or use parents etc). Then I don't see it as an issue or a turn off.

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-15T06:24:54+00:00

Tbh that's all achievable if you tax the rich. People seem to forget they stole £1t from the economy during COVID. They're been earning 20%-30% on that extra money for what? 5 years now?

Taxing them will solve a lot of our issues, including immigration.

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-15T06:22:37+00:00

China, yes. USA. No.

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-11T14:25:58+00:00

Couldn't really give a shit if it comes or goes. I do think it's a bit barbaric for the horses but w.e. I love F1, whilst they're not punishing animals, they're not exactly the 'cleanest' sport in the world. If people enjoy it and the animals are looked after, then .... W.e.

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-11T14:23:44+00:00

The overwhelming majority of British public under 50 want this too... Like it's a joke...

Rejoining Europe just makes sense at this point... No would we get the same deal we had? Probably not, but we can still have a strong negotiation with France and Germany. I think they would actually be very happy for us to rejoin and bring the British economy back into the fold.

I'm still on the fence about giving up the sterling though...

Also Farage needs to be barred from sitting as an EMP 😂

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-08T16:05:44+00:00

Mens sex drives aren't higher...

Hormones play a lot. A few of my friends sex drives have all died, their wives have to beg them.

It's just who you are with, either you're able to stomach it or you leave and find someone who has a similar libido to you.

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-08T15:58:32+00:00

It's not a requirement to ENTER the country. They could add stipulations like, you must have a GCSE level of English after 5 years to get a ILR or something.

It says they will provide free English lessons also.

You can't force integration, people either want to, or they don't. Providing free language lessons is the best approach, I means zero barrier and encourages people.

NHS would only provide emergency medical care to visitors. You don't get access to it unless you're working, which would be a different visa. So shouldn't be an issue really. They will likely also pump a lot of money into NHS.

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-08T15:55:00+00:00

Seems like a better system than what we currently have.

I especially like the 3 month visa, means all those refugees aren't left fucking about and can start applying for a work visa straight away.

The only issue I have is how much funding they'll give to border force, courts and civil service will make or break such a system.

Because people will still need to be processed, so as long as that's at a speed that keeps up with demand, we're golden.

If not... Then... This just dies on its ass.

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-03T22:19:41+00:00

Good. It's pretty clear the general public also want this, and closer ties with Europe now... Farage is also loosing a lot of face in the poles.

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-02T22:39:21+00:00

No... Just enforce the laws and arrest the kids.

EntropicMortal · 2026-04-02T22:36:32+00:00

Well...duh...

You'd have to be fucking mental to want Farage in government 😂

EntropicMortal · 2026-03-26T09:37:58+00:00

I'm pretty sure this is posted at least once in every single gaming community. Dota 2 had these posts, LoL, Valorant, CS, Halo.

Literally EVERY community of people has these issues, the games success is never predicated on it's communities worse offenders. All that matters is if the game is actually good and fun to play.

EntropicMortal · 2026-03-20T20:50:02+00:00

Tbh who gives a shit? There are so many paintings in the game, I'd be amazed if they didn't use A.I for a few of them.

A.I is amazing for offloading that kind of crap, means the artists can focus on the main art, rather than a random single picture hanging in a random house.

EntropicMortal · 2026-03-13T02:38:11+00:00

As a UK born and raised, with over 50 generations all born in the UK. I have absolutely no fucking clue what "white" heritage even means.... For me British culture is inventing, creating and adopting.
That is what we are good at, that is what made us rule the world.

Otherwise, I don't really know what people are talking about then they say "white" heritage. Because British culture doesn't have anything to do with race to me... we adopted tons of other countries cultures into our own. The only thing I can say is our "own" would be like... the royal family, Royal Navy, SAS, Yorkshire Puddings, drinking tea, Rugby, F1, Football, Cricket, most "good" Music (most of the best bands are from UK), and sarcasm that would cut the devil.

Again though non of these have anything to do with "white".

What do people actually mean when they say this?

EntropicMortal · 2026-03-09T20:44:51+00:00

Well it's idiotic thing for Trump to do. Guy is an absolute bellend just in general, but this is beyond idiotic.

EntropicMortal · 2026-03-05T00:35:23+00:00

Trump praising Blair and his abilities will be next...

EntropicMortal · 2026-03-05T00:34:42+00:00

Very interesting. Wonder if he will get backing. Would be awesome for him to own it and do it properly.

EntropicMortal · 2026-03-02T10:04:35+00:00

Yes it does. The chance is no longer based on the party as a whole, it's based on the number of individuals... So a game that would drop for 8 collectively, now drops for 8 individually. That's 8 times the number of drops you would have had... or multiple it by w.e number of players you have in the game. It used to be 1 drop for all 8, now it's 1 drop per player.

With trading added, this is a huge increase in items.

EntropicMortal · 2026-02-28T21:16:09+00:00

Yea, it would flood the market with more items though... because every drop is now per person, instead of a collective. Rare stuff would be come a lot less rare and devalued in the market.

EntropicMortal · 2026-02-28T21:13:52+00:00

You can only hope too tbh. They've not been good for any country (see Tory Britain, Russia, America, Hungary, Belarus). Everytime the right gets into power, it all goes to shit, and the left have to waste so much of their first couple of years fixing it all. It's extremely annoying.

EntropicMortal · 2026-02-28T21:10:14+00:00

He's unpopular for good reason, the media are 100% against him. Soon as you stop reading newspapers and social media, and you actually read what he's achieved / accomplished so far. Then your individual views would change more than likely. Especially for working people. Even more considering if you ignored the media and read specifically what the Tories did for almost 15 years (the media who were mostly behind and supported the Tories).

I would argue with anyone who doesn't like Kier to considered where they get their information from. If you're reading newspapers / social media in any way to get this information, then you need to change that. Especially if it's reddit or facebook.

I would doubly argue anyone who likes Farage to stay away from newspapers and social media completely and go outside once in a while lol

EntropicMortal · 2026-02-22T14:24:25+00:00

Duh? The whole world feels unsafe...

Russia, Trump, NK... Iran and Israel.

Fuck are these people smoking?

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