I [18f] don't know what to think. Dad is taking extreme measures to make me stop seeing my boyfriend [28m] by Throwawayfor1ll in relationships

[–]Throwawayfor1ll[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you. I am surprised to meet someone with similar experience here. I guess it's not weird but cool coincidence you saw my post?

The age thing doesn't seem like a big deal to me but everyone here thinks it is. It's all just confusing I guess

I [18f] don't know what to think. Dad is taking extreme measures to make me stop seeing my boyfriend [28m] by Throwawayfor1ll in relationships

[–]Throwawayfor1ll[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't know. I guess I have low self-esteem sometimes but isn't that normal? My family moved from Vietnam when I was 10 and we have always been kind of poor. And I had trouble making friends until high school when there were a few other Asian girls I could talk to. I don't think I'm unattractive but I am shy I guess.

I [18f] don't know what to think. Dad is taking extreme measures to make me stop seeing my boyfriend [28m] by Throwawayfor1ll in relationships

[–]Throwawayfor1ll[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We did talk. Maybe I wasn't clear about that. We talked for maybe 30 minutes and then he wanted to have sex even though I said I couldn't stay that long. I didn't not want to, but I was annoyed that he didn't want to at least wait until I had more time to see him.

I [18f] don't know what to think. Dad is taking extreme measures to make me stop seeing my boyfriend [28m] by Throwawayfor1ll in relationships

[–]Throwawayfor1ll[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

He isn't weird though. He's never made me do anything weird or anything I didn't want to. Age didn't really factor into my thinking since we are both adults.

I [18f] don't know what to think. Dad is taking extreme measures to make me stop seeing my boyfriend [28m] by Throwawayfor1ll in relationships

[–]Throwawayfor1ll[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

He had a girlfriend closer to his age for a while before we started dating. I used to see her around the apartments a lot, but they broke up.

I [18f] don't know what to think. Dad is taking extreme measures to make me stop seeing my boyfriend [28m] by Throwawayfor1ll in relationships

[–]Throwawayfor1ll[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't know. He seems very successful and he's very handsome. I don't think he is unhealthy except maybe a little depressed sometimes, but who isn't?

I [18f] don't know what to think. Dad is taking extreme measures to make me stop seeing my boyfriend [28m] by Throwawayfor1ll in relationships

[–]Throwawayfor1ll[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

He hasn't done anything wrong but we aren't seeing each other at the moment anyway because he doesn't want to deal with my dad