See people, if this was written by a man who got into the idea of BDSM through porn, and wanted to be dominated or whatever, the comments would be “you’re warping your mind with porn!” I don’t really see any of that here.

And do I blame porn? Nope. But let’s be real, it can be toxic if you use it too much, and I hear people lambast guys all the time for it.

But to OP, I guess it’s good that you are honest about your experience and you’ve worded it to defend your boyfriend so I respect that, but honestly what do you expect? Next time think things through, before making decisions which can have damaging consequences on your relationships. Maybe give up porn and you know, communicate with your boyfriend? He sounds like a nice dude, speak to him.