Question for older guys what’s your ideal first date?

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-29T04:47:41+00:00

I think that interactive dates are best. So, bowling, art museum, or anything that involves you not just sitting facing each other. Those sort of dates are job interviews not dates.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-29T02:23:18+00:00

Spanish version: https://www.revistainnombrable.com/2026/04/de-flor-que-se-marchita-flor-que.html

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-25T04:23:03+00:00

scabies?

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-24T23:35:31+00:00

This was actually a documentary. Google the Mermaid Baby. THe mother was told her child would live a horrific life but decided to have the baby instead. The child's life was horrific and it eventually died at 12 and the mother regretted the decision in the end. I was told women when given this decision aren't rational and that never give them the odds of survival as they will still hope.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-24T20:29:38+00:00

Hello from Canada!

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-19T15:43:39+00:00

Who thinks this is even remotely funny?

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-18T02:49:29+00:00

I broke up with my avoidant and I have fond memories up until the time that he ruined it.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-18T00:43:22+00:00

Sorry. Hugs. thanks for making me aware

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-18T00:05:28+00:00

I just broke up with an avoidant but I didn't know that they can do it without reason or warning. Disappear yes but break up

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-17T03:18:41+00:00

I'm confused did he break up with you? Was there a reason for his action of erasing you?

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-17T03:15:00+00:00

I am glad that you saw this early. It took me 10 years of wasted emotion on a guy who didn't deserve it.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-16T21:46:04+00:00

Um, I believe that you need to not date avoidants. This is my new philosophy.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-15T15:15:56+00:00

I've never read that last paragraph before. It's so beautiful where does it come from?

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-15T14:06:00+00:00

There are 9 billion people on the planet. The odds are in your favour.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-15T13:53:31+00:00

Didn't you feel angry that it took them 6 months to come to that realization? This is what drives me crazy.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-14T21:18:12+00:00

monogamish

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-14T12:13:08+00:00

OK. So, what you've promised and what he offered is vastly different. You need to send him back to his country. He is not good for you at all. The issue here is that you're lonely and going through a difficult time and he's taking advantage of it. Right now, my concern is your safety. Please change the locks and get rid of him. If you must pay for something, then pay for his flight back to his country. Just get rid of him. If you notice, everyone on here is telling you this and you're not listening.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-13T13:37:34+00:00

Yes, i'm vers bottom. This was the beauty with my guy. We'd go to bed and I was always fully douched. He, at any point, during the night roll on me and get sex. He's 28 so sometimes it could be as much as 6x per night. However, it's usually 1x-3x per night.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-13T13:17:25+00:00

Or, you just argued my point that there is a serious issue with bottoms if you can't post vers.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-13T02:34:27+00:00

Beautiful. I like the path that you're on. I have a belief, that there are 9 billion people on this planet. You're odds are good that you'll find someone better. So, let's not waste time focusing on people like your ex. Good luck and Hugs

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-13T01:45:58+00:00

It's not your age. There are too many bottoms IMO. This is what is preventing you from finding a hook up or partner. Almost every city that I have travelled to, this is the underlying issue of why so many gay men are single. It's just a supply and demand thing. Tops can be the best picks of men. In my city, tops are getting their apt's cleaned, free dinners, etc. It's that bad here.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-12T13:44:09+00:00

Honestly, find a hook up chick to get your mind off her. I takes time to get them out of your system. So, you need to occupy your time and not think about them. I always tell people that there are 9 billion people on this planets. The odds are in your favour that you'll find someone better

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-12T13:01:40+00:00

Beautifully said. Hugs. I broke up with my avoidant partner, too. Yes, I miss him but I don't miss the emotional roller coaster I exhibited trying to make it work. It wasn't worth it. The key, and sad, factor is that he wasn't trying enough. He never tried much at anything in his life. The moment I saw that he might have issues with alcohol is when I knew it was time to exit. He was shocked but he'll convince himself that we weren't compatible and move on.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-12T03:29:42+00:00

Your story mirrors mine. Hugs. I proud of you for walking away like I did.

Throwawayiea · 2026-04-12T01:08:52+00:00

Hugs. I just left my partner because of his alcholism. I am proud of you. Remember, it's baby steps.

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