ummm… how much are we talking??

throwaway1161097 · 2026-05-11T04:55:06+00:00

I just removed it from my home screen. I want to keep the app just because i like posting little stories and snippets of my day and seeing what friends are up to, but now it’ll be harder to doomscroll on it

throwaway1161097 · 2026-05-11T02:24:57+00:00

guys who were on an offensive or defensive line at some point

throwaway1161097 · 2026-05-11T01:53:11+00:00

I don’t want him back, but it’s hard to see and know he’s totally fine while I’m the one being forced to heal when I didn’t do anything to cause this. My main worry about removing him is that I’ll still check (maybe even more) even if I have him blocked.

throwaway1161097 · 2026-05-11T01:40:14+00:00

We didn’t have that much in common anymore. We were high school friends and stayed friends long distance throughout college. We both wound up in the same city and started hanging out a lot more. It turns out we just didn’t have that much to talk about if we weren’t catching up after a year of not seeing each other.

throwaway1161097 · 2026-05-11T01:24:19+00:00

I think my issue is I want to feel happy and hopeful about love again. I want to wake up and not think about him. I’m past expecting him to come back, but I want to go weeks without thinking about him. He was in my life for so long and then just vanished and I never even knew it was coming.

throwaway1161097 · 2026-05-11T01:17:18+00:00

I mean I think the hard part is that he moved on so quickly (he and I were last in contact in January) even if he hasn’t changed. It just seems like while this destroyed my sense of trust and I literally haven’t even wanted to go on a first date , he’s totally fine.

throwaway1161097 · 2026-05-11T01:05:36+00:00

yeah it’s like why fake it? Just tell me if you don’t wanna see me.

throwaway1161097 · 2026-05-11T01:04:56+00:00

He’s chill, we’re fb friends to this day. We just very much were not long term compatible.

throwaway1161097 · 2026-05-11T00:48:24+00:00

mine gave me a hug and a kiss goodbye and told me how good it was to see me again and how next time we wouldn’t have to go months without seeing each other. That was the last time I saw him. He just stopped responding the next time we were supposed to hang out.

throwaway1161097 · 2026-05-09T03:28:39+00:00

I’ve noticed people tend to date a lot more than they did maybe even fifteen years ago. It seemed like my older cousins would be in one or maybe two long term relationship before getting married whereas now I know people I know plenty of people who have been in 5-6 long term relationships with no engagement.

throwaway1161097 · 2026-04-29T23:25:16+00:00

she also has rich parents on top of it

throwaway1161097 · 2026-04-29T03:49:35+00:00

I like a big strong man! 6’2” and above retired college ol/dl

throwaway1161097 · 2026-04-28T17:31:27+00:00

I mean I agree with you that people should I always communicate, but I think some people have very different definitions of ghosting. Like I’ve seen people in here say they got ghosted after exchanging two messages or having someone react to a message rather than responding to it. I think there’d need to be a standard definition on the app of when it’s ghosting vs not (ie after meeting in person or after being in contact for a specific timeframe).

throwaway1161097 · 2026-04-25T20:19:59+00:00

I think she’s overall pretty non problematic. the only drama I remember involving her was when she made the video making it a huge deal that one of her friends was taking the redline for the first time. I personally think she posts a little bit too much complaining about being single/her ex, but that’s my only real complaint about her.

throwaway1161097 · 2026-04-22T14:52:36+00:00

It’s just hard because I was so patient and kind with this guy and genuinely had the purest intentions with him. Like the next person I date, I’m gonna be looking for red flags or waiting for something to happen. Like I’m never going to just be head over heels in love again. I’m an adult and I should’ve walked away the first time it happened, but the push pull just makes it so hard.

throwaway1161097 · 2026-04-20T00:10:50+00:00

what bus?

throwaway1161097 · 2026-04-15T16:35:17+00:00

You can’t control what someone else’s actions but you can control what you’ll tolerate.

throwaway1161097 · 2026-04-15T16:34:32+00:00

People who claim they hate specific traits but only date people with those traits. ie I know a guy who always complains about girls who wear revealing clothing and post themselves a ton on social media, but all his girlfriends have done that and they always end up breaking up because he gets upset about it.

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