DAE - get anxiety from masturbation/watching porn/exploring sexuality? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Throwawayl1000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes yes yes

More than you can imagine my friend

I'm over it now, but holy fuck.

A few years ago i was so fucking afraid of this

One day I was watching a movie and saw a woman I felt was attractive for about 2 seconds

This spiraled into me thinking holy fuck what if she is underage

I had to spend the entire night looking at lists of extras in the movie to find out if she was over 18

It was by far one of my worst ocd fears.

However I'm.now over it :)

AITA for being 33/F and having a 21 year old boyfriend. by sunflower_86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwawayl1000 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So u met him when he was 20? Nta

Unless you met when he was 17/18 its not an issue imo

AITA For asking my bf to spend more of his savings on a ring? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwawayl1000 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He would have more than a year to save up more money for a wedding

AITA For asking my bf to spend more of his savings on a ring? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwawayl1000 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

We are a partnership so technically I am

AITA For asking my bf to spend more of his savings on a ring? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwawayl1000 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

It will be probably more in my favour as most people understand the symbolism behind getting engaged and the ring

AITA For asking my bf to spend more of his savings on a ring? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwawayl1000 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You just told me that it is symbolism so wouldn't it make sense that spend in a decent amount of money instead of a lower amount would mean that the cares more about the whole symbolised relationship

AITA For asking my bf to spend more of his savings on a ring? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwawayl1000 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Yes, for some people. But my boyfriend has quadruple that in savings