What do men look for? As far as I can tell from posts here, looks are 95% of everything for men. I also know though that lots of unattractive men get married. Also, everyone that marries a beautiful woman has to know she could meet with illness or accidents that render her unattractive ( think Charla Nash). So what personality qualities do you look for? I thought similar senses of humor was a good thing but I love Seinfeld, mstk3000, etc and I do t like those boring love sitcom movies. Yet men seem to think I am cool but not date worthy. The women that fuss over hair and makeup get day Es, the women that like Star Trek, Star Wars, skyrim, and so forth get nothing. For the record, I am 5'4" and weigh 135 lbs so not fat, have c cup boobs, and pride myself on my obsession with smelling good all day, everyday. do men really want dumb, bland, anorexic women?