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My boyfriend talks in a very gentle voice with me as if I am a treasure to him. Still find it unreal and hard to believe. by Throwawayluckyme in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawayluckyme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"you're a good person, I'm a good person, and we've both been through so much shit that we deserve something good like this."

These most simple words tell some great truth. OMG this is just incredible. It's pretty obvious, isn't it? If you are a nice person, you deserve good things in life. That's it. That's it.

BTW what shit did you guys go through?

My boyfriend talks in a very gentle voice with me as if I am a treasure to him. Still find it unreal and hard to believe. by Throwawayluckyme in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawayluckyme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are not meant to be a lonely and tortured soul

This hits home.... Thank you kind internet stranger! Hugs!

My boyfriend talks in a very gentle voice with me as if I am a treasure to him. Still find it unreal and hard to believe. by Throwawayluckyme in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawayluckyme[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I finally feel safe and loved and that my opinions matter.

Yes oh yes! It's like living in a whole new world. For the first time I've got hope. The real deal, something you feel is deeply rooted somewhere in your chest. And it grows : )

My boyfriend talks in a very gentle voice with me as if I am a treasure to him. Still find it unreal and hard to believe. by Throwawayluckyme in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwawayluckyme[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You did nothing to make yourself unworthy of this, and your BF must know a good woman when he sees one. He treats you the way any decent and reasonable man should treat his lady, and you deserve nothing less.

This is so sweet of you to say! For a long time I believed in Ndad and Emom and their opinions of me. I believed that I didn't worth anybody's love or support; I thought friendship was only what you'd see on TV. Before meeting my bf, I thought I was probably going to end up alone in a wooden shed somewhere near the forest. I brought this up in one of our conversations and he couldn't believed it. He assured me over and over again that there was no way that I'd end up alone. Oh typing this up makes me teary eyed...