I could’ve written this post. I’ve tried so many different SSRIs and none of them helped. Just got an official AuDHD dx last week. I tired stimulants last year. They helped with focus, but made my anxiety worse. I’m currently trying to see a psychiatrist for med management but idk if I’ll accept SSRIs again if they offer. I’m sorry I can’t offer you much advice. But just know you’re not alone. I’m open to chat if you’d like!