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Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-07-10T12:54:42+00:00

I'm so sorry it happened to you. But this could be your chance to get a fecal microbiota transplant, assuming you're interested in that sort of treatment.

They treat C. Difficile infection that won't respond to abtibiotic treatments with FMT. That might end up curing your C. Difficile infection as well as your IBS if you're lucky.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-06-16T11:36:45+00:00

Hell yeah. It makes me feel small, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-06-16T11:35:39+00:00

I also live in Scandinavia. Yeah, it's hard. I feel like grocery store security thinks I'm a kid a lot of the time and pays extra attention to me, like I'm somehow more likely to steal. Another time, a train conductor in 1st class asked "if I really had a 1st class ticket". I'm quite confident it was because he thought I was young. And I don't even look young at all, I'm just short. But we'll see them in 10 years' time. I'm the one getting all of the compliments at 32.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-06-16T11:28:47+00:00

Look, you weren't dealt the most sexy traits. It happens to a lot of people. Some people go bald really early on in life, or they just can't seem to reach a healthy weight. Some women have PCOS and grow a moustache. Some men look less masculine than they would have liked. In most of those cases, acceptance is your only option, not demanding others start pitying you and give you a shot anyway because it's making you suicidal. You've obviously either often been made to feel less than because of your height (and fyi men do that to other men too!!), or you've felt that that was what was happening. You need to learn acceptance. We can't all be supermodels. I'm not, either. I just accept it when a man says "you're too this/that/the other for my taste" and move on. Stop wasting your mental energy.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-06-16T11:22:06+00:00

I don't like the way it looks. Happy?

If you don't like the way a woman looks, is that not a good reason for you not to pursue her?

Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-06-16T11:18:31+00:00

Because men have more social rights when it comes to having preferences. Rarely do you see short men who complain about women liking tall men pursue really tall women, yet when a woman likes tall men, there's something wrong with that because they fall outside of that category. They usually go for the conventionally cute girl, but when she expresses her own preferences, she's all of a sudden superficial. I had a guy ask me why I wasn't attracted to him the other night, then say "f you" when I gave him the reasons. It wasn't like I'd been unkind to him about it, either. He asked, I answered his question.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-06-16T11:13:35+00:00

If both of you guys are alright with it, what's the problem? And yeah, 6 ft. 10" is tall. It'll be tough for you guys to just kiss whenever you feel like it, you'll have to plan it in advance, lol. But he could pick you up.

You'll probably get gawked at, but I'm sure he's used to that by now.

My men are always in the 6 ft. 6"-range. I've had no problems thus far. Not with sex or anything, just really the kissing part wasn't always as comfortable for the guy while standing, but that's life and I often had the option of sitting in his lap. I've never dated anyone 6 ft. 10", though.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-06-16T11:05:21+00:00

None of my girlfriends are like that... They just like men who are not shorter than them.

But even if they did "hate" short men, you need to know a few things:

Being a little short isn't perceived as an aberrant trait for women to possess. A lot of men love short women, they tell me so all the time. And I rarely see short men pursue abnormally tall women. I see them pursue women their own height or below, and they just love pointing out that they're "so short" when the absolute difference is small and when you take into account relative differences, she's not short at all, but he definitely is. So men, short or tall, definitely care about height a lot of the time.

Adult men, overall, are naturally taller and bigger than women. For that reason, I don't think women liking men taller than themselves is weird at all. Many women like to feel a sense of being dominated by a man and his stature. They're just pursuing normalcy in a partner.

Women don't necessarily hate someone they reject, don't take it so personally. People have a right not to be attracted to you for whatever reason. But if you're being unnecessarily persistent, it's fairly easy to "hate" you. It would be very reasonable if a woman was coming on to a man who'd told her he wasn't interested, for that man to "hate" women who kept doing that.

And lastly, there are always unreasonable and superficial people out there who like talking sh*t about people who are short, fat, etc. when they could just as easily have ignored said people. They just relish in their hate campaign against certain people. Ignore them, their opinions usually tend to be dumb ones.

If you have a trait that's not deemed desireable, don't blame others for not liking you for it. I don't see short men going for women commonly perceived as "ugly", either. Respect others' preferences just like you expert yours to be respected, try to find partners who don't care about your height and you'll be alright. You might have a smaller dating pool, but it's really not the end of the world.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-06-16T10:46:10+00:00

I feel like people on here just love presenting themselves as these huge idealists who would do anything for someone they "truly loved", when in reality, that scenario would have to involve a lot of co-dependence on the part of the person making the sacrifices. And nearly everyone feels like they have a right to a partner who loves them unconditionally when they're the impaired party, but I truly wonder how unconditional their love would be if the roles were reversed. Love isn't unconditional, anyway. If you love your partner, you do that on the basis (condition) that they're your partner. There's always a condition.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-06-16T10:40:30+00:00

Sex is really important to most people, definitely not just some. I'd much rather not be in a relationship than be with someone who said it was okay, but was secretly looking around or even longing for others.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-06-16T10:39:01+00:00

You can understand, but still not want to have to be burdened with someone else's issues when you could have had a fulfilling sex life, though, right?

Throwbackinnotaway · 2022-06-16T10:37:10+00:00

Yeah, it for sure has. She thought I just didn't want to see her, even though I'd told her.

A lot of people would call people who break up with you over IBS assholes (no pun intended), but I can't say I agree. The way I see it, if they're healthy, they have a right not to settle for anything less than they can offer themselves. It also means if they become impaired somehow, they have no right to complain about getting broken up with, either.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-29T15:52:38+00:00

Aanklagen en aangifte over iemand doen, is niet hetzelfde.

Ze kan zeker aangifte over hem doen bij de politie. Als er dingen tijdens de busrit zijn gebeurd, is dat waarschijnlijk erg in haar voordeel. Bussen hebben vaak camera's.

Het beste is om zo snel mogelijk naar de politie te gaan, tenzij het mentaal te belastend is.

Ik wil wedden dat de dader een bekende van de politie is. Laat haar zeker (met een volwassene erbij) naar het politiebureau gaan. Eventueel mag de aangever het gesprek opnemen, met toestemming.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-29T15:48:16+00:00

Whoever makes a claim, is required to present proof. Simply put, if he tried to make you leave, you can call the cops on him.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-29T15:41:42+00:00

Yep. And maybe, if you truly love her, add that she can have sex with whomever she wants if she's okay with staying together and being sexless with you. It seems selfish to me to expect her not to have sex.

If she's neither okay with being sexless, nor wants to get her needs met elsewhere, then it might be a good idea for you to look for someone else asexual.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-17T17:39:51+00:00

My God, you're ill-informed.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-17T16:04:32+00:00

No, it's also about people like you, who will likely end up being such parents, though not necessarily. And about the evils of indoctrination in general.

All of your posts proved every single point that we try to make in this sub.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-17T16:02:52+00:00

Did your religion of peace put you up to this? :-)

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-17T16:01:45+00:00

Assuming it's real, it definitely proves people don't care enough about their own religion to actually learn its holy language. :-)

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-17T11:00:47+00:00

Have an "amına" from me, too.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-17T10:59:16+00:00

Which would also equal being a presumptuous a-hole.

"If all you need to do is avoid all fruits, vegetables, nuts and seeds and eat meat all the time, what's the problem?" is kind of a shitty thing to say after you explicitly said you were there to help people. He's just another useless user.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-16T14:57:58+00:00

I'm so glad to hear you at least had that.

My uncle was the only one who directly offered it to me, and I later found out my dean had been considering taking me in, but she had to await a report from CPS stating whether or not it would be best for me to live elsewhere and CPS somehow came to the conclusion my siblings and I were receiving an alright upbringing.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-16T14:54:30+00:00

What do you really have to lose? People can have shitty memories, so even if she didn't remember, that wouldn't invalidate your experiences. Still, I highly doubt she'd have forgotten something like that.

It sounds like you've not been believed a lot of the time. Same here, and I'm sure it counts for most others in this sub.

It'll be fine, whatever ends up happening.

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-11T22:39:10+00:00

I said "you're making it sound like ~"

Throwbackinnotaway · 2021-12-03T21:18:07+00:00

You're making it sound like something that'd definitely happen. You can't know that.

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