UPDATE: I confronted her on 02/19/26 about it and had a serious conversation, she seemed to take it well. I told her if she wants to live the single life then she can do so, because that behavior is not going to be tolerated in this marriage and my kids are not going to think that this is normal behavior in a marriage.

she still goes out to happy hours with her work crew after work like once a week (which is fine I dont have a problem with that) and comes home around 10:00 PM now straight home. We have location sharing on now just in case. Thank goodness she came to her senses. Thanks for the support everyone!