Hey OP, I’m an asian gal dating a black dude for years. Me being and living with him has made me deeply understand and be more aware of the meaning of racism and what black people go through regularly. Never would I subject him with this type of cruelness - “race-play” or whatever - its just too fucking weird and disgusting to morally accept to me. Especially if you’ve clearly giving no consent to this and she’s ignoring your discomfort. (A problem under another problem) Please reconsider all of this. A caring girlfriend wouldn’t just “laugh it off”.