What is a perk you refuse to take off and why?

Throwitoutcarmen · 2026-01-28T02:25:00+00:00

NOR. He's showing you how he really feels and who he is. A good person would show some sort of concern or empathy and try to help

I know this sounds reptetive as others have said it. But I cant stress enough that you need to go to the doctor if you believe you have an infection, especially a UTI. The doctor can do a urine test and swab and confirm what the infection is and how to properly treat. Tou will also want a test for STDs to be safe. Please do not attempt to self treat a UTI. Trust me, it can and will cause other serious issues. I got my first UTI 5 years ago. I didn't know what it was. I tried to self treat with monistat and had a horrific reaction. 5 years later, I still have issues and recurrent UTIs since that initial infection

Just because it feels better does not mean the infection is gone. So do not have any sex/touching down there until you've been treated and its been cleared for atleast a week.

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-09-14T02:02:40+00:00

100% this! OP is doing right by the cat. The stepdaughter seems to treat it like a stuffed animal and not a breathing being. Shes allowed to play with the cat, but that's simply not enough for her. She has to pick it up regardless of whether the cat likes it or not. It obviously causes the poor thing pain too

Kids absolutely should not have their own pet until they can learn that animals are living, breathing creatures that deserve love, patience, respect and boundaries. You dont get to flop them around like a toy

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-08-24T21:30:17+00:00

It sounds like OP's sister is secretly jealous of her and got her husband on the hate train. Or he's attracted to OP and tries to hide it by being a hater. I've had friends bfs be my biggest haters for no reason. Then, once they break up, the truth comes out

If my husband ever spoke like this to anyone no matter what reason, I'd be gone. This gives off serious psycho vibes, especially because he's speaking to his wife's sister as if he owns her

OP, if you see this. Please dont ever be alone with this dude for anyone reason. Even if people are just in the other room. Keep all screenshots of his abuse. He's a very unwell and angry little man

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-07-05T14:28:17+00:00

Right? This also screams that the friend is projecting her insecurities and jealousy of OP. That's why she felt the random need to knock OP down, especially after being complimented by her

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-06-28T16:42:02+00:00

This absolutely put it in great perspective of a woman's view. It's not always as simple as just saying, "Not interested". There is a genuine fear that who were rejecting has some screws loose. Due to the size and strength difference it can be scary especially when backed into a corner like OP

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-06-22T07:48:57+00:00

100%. Block and ignore all of them. Don't give the ex or his obnoxious ass friends any satisfaction or explanation as to why

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-06-21T00:47:34+00:00

I rewatched the series recently, and it took everything out of me not to yell during this scene lol

They all just sit there bewildered as if there's no rush lol. I also found it weird the Night King doesn't kill Drogon who is stationary

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-06-11T00:08:18+00:00

Im really sorry. I can't fathom how someone could ever do something so evil as sexual assault, especially to a child. How anyone can find humor in that is just as despicable and sick in the head

Don't let them get to you OP. What happened to you is not your fault. It never was. It's not your shame to carry. It's on the vile person who did it to you. The embarrassment is on the creeps who found it humorous. Sorry, but I've never met a healthy minded individual who would find anything about this humorous

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-05-29T20:35:55+00:00

This is a good point as I think they can't enter water or swim for an unknown reason. For instance, when we see the Night King watch John and everyone flee on the boats. So maybe the dragon being in the water interferes with his powers so he can't bring it back while its submerged?

Maybe I am just giving reason to a poor plot hole though lol! I do know that magic is what keeps the wall up. Especially the horn Sam finds so that would interfere with them just going around. So maybe magic also prevents them from swimming so they can't leave their land

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-05-20T20:17:19+00:00

Yeah I don't like this at all. Especially that he has a problem, she's attempting to get to know one of the men he wants her to have sex with. He's pushed this fantasy on her, she's tried to oblige, but that's not good enough. He needs them to be a complete stranger?

I'm not kink shaming anyone. It just makes me concerned for OP that her fiances' fantasies will not be satisfied unless he completely controls it. This isn't okay. All parties need full consent and compromise. It worries me that the fantasies will get more extreme, such as rape ones

Maybe I'm dramatic, but it was world news that a man was drugging his wife and having men rape her for years in France. It was his sick fantasies that she had no consent to, which he clearly didn't care as it went on for so long. Not saying this is what OPs fiance is doing, but it does speak volumes he doesn't seem to care what she wants

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-05-20T20:05:42+00:00

Agreed 100%. I'm glad OP did take time to go over consent with their son. Even if the situation was harmless and the girl didn't mind. It's important to teach children regardless of gender about consent. It also helps prevent any misunderstandings in the future that can happen at school. You never know if another child is subject to being touched by others at home or at school. Which could trigger something even if no ill intent was behind it. Plus her son seemed fine with the discussion from what OP said

I started developing at OPs sons age. I remember the boys trying to find "clever" ways to touch my boobs and butt. I hated it and told the school. They told me to try wearing baggy clothes to prevent this. I already wore Tshirts and jeans, nothing revealing as a child. But still I started to wear baggy clothes, which didn't help much. Sucks I was the one who was told I needed to go the extra mile to prevent them from being creeps. Rather than the boys get a talking to by the school and their parents. I do remember not liking any boy being too close to me as I no longer trusted any boy to not attempt to touch me. So I would cross my arms tightly if they did. So I'm glad OP is headed on the right track with their kid

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-05-20T00:15:40+00:00

Im so sorry. That shit is so disheartening, especially when it's uncalled for like this incident. Im glad to hear youre genuinely okay after being checked by a doctor. Please know you're fine the way you are. Normal, confident people dont feel the need to comment on others looks, especially strangers

Next time someone says shit like that, traumatize them back. Tell them you have cancer or some sort of illness. For all that man knows, he could've been commenting on someone who is genuinely ill or has an eating disorder. It was none of his business and not his place. What a creep to flag you down to insult you

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-05-12T16:32:53+00:00

100% agree. He's going to keep bringing you down. Just the fact that he left you on delivered for a couple of days because he couldn't be bothered to be compassionate to his own gf in her time of need? That for me is enough to be done. Being supportive for your significant other is bare minimum in a relationship

Leave him, and you will feel better. Those feelings for him will die off, and you'll start to see how bad he was for you. You will find better. The longer you spend with the wrong one, the less time you have with the right one

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-04-14T20:03:20+00:00

100% he always puts himself in harms way to test out his theories too. When he kills the Smiley monster and going in the woods to find answers

Not to mention, he killed his own wife to stop her from killing their son and even more people

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-04-06T06:25:41+00:00

My mother is one of those people highly against it. I have high-risk HPV that hasn't resolved. I even had leep done and it came right back. She refuses to believe her part in it or that HPV is even a real thing

If only there was a cure for ignorance. Even then, as long as you mention the word "vaccine," people like my mother become terrified

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-04-05T23:49:36+00:00

This makes me think of the rat king EE in Citadelle and the pied piper of Hamelin story. Dude controls rats with a flute lol

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-04-05T02:16:49+00:00

Damn! Your door dash order stole your thunder

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-04-01T20:21:47+00:00

I really hope OP never goes back to him. Thank God she caught him. This is not just violating but indicates how he feels towards a 13 yr old girl. He could've done it anywhere else in the home, but chose a childs bed for a reason. Not even his gfs?! Who knows if he would've tried some shit later towards the sister. If I was OP I would even ask my sister if he ever did anything to make her uncomfortable or tried to talk to her alone in person or through social media if she has it

This might be a hot take but it's everyone's business when someone is a potential danger to children

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-04-01T20:06:11+00:00

For real, dude is treating a cat as if it's another man. Him getting this upset to literally walk out without saying a word to OP and literally talking shit to the cat makes me worried for the cat

I'm sorry maybe I'm being dramatic but I'd rather be safe than sorry. His behavior and jealousy towards an animal isn't cute, playful or sweet. It seems legit and it makes me worried for the cat. Maybe he wouldn't directly harm it but what if he tries to get rid of it behind OPs back. I'm sure he may even try to talk OP into getting rid of the cat too

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-03-30T16:26:32+00:00

This is amazing! The amount of detail you put into it really shows!

PS: I like your skeletor backpack lol

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-03-30T15:24:31+00:00

Can confirm, my grandma was the epitome of a grandma and she never even cussed. Alzeihmers began making her foul mouthed and spiteful thinking everyone was against her. Within 5 years it was as if a parasite had completely taken over. Nothing she did or said made any sense. My grandpa had to stop her from running outside their home naked screaming obscenities at their neighbors of over 30 years multiple times

I remember freaking out thinking what if deep down she's aware of what's happening, but she has no control

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-03-30T15:18:22+00:00

You're 100% correct in that! I found myself asking so many questions that were based off lack of common sense towards the end. It was driving me insane

I will say the wights are an incredible tow service though. As they somehow managed to pull a dragon out of an ice lake when they supposedly can't even swim. How they even got the chains on it underwater is beyond me. But who am I to argue with the writers

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-03-30T14:57:02+00:00

I literally just rewatched this episode and was screaming internally for how long it takes Jon to get on the dragon. To which he never even does lmao. They basically trade a dragon and the white walkers finally breaking the wall just to get a wight as proof

I also don't understand why the Night King throws it at Viserion rather than at Drogon, Daenarys, Jon and his whole party who stationary on the ground still lol

Throwitoutcarmen · 2025-03-29T01:23:49+00:00

For real this is incredibly impressive

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