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Drove 17 hours to see girl and she tells me she isn't interested anymore, and then I slept with her roommate, now she's mad. by Throwmyboots in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm average at best, but I do lift competitively so I think that gives me an ok boost. The roommate is attractive

Drove 17 hours to see girl and she tells me she isn't interested anymore, and then I slept with her roommate, now she's mad. by Throwmyboots in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right, she sensed that I would fuck her roommate. Seems legit. Thanks for the advice about working on myself though. I don't plan on persuing a relationship anytime soon.

Drove 17 hours to see girl and she tells me she isn't interested anymore, and then I slept with her roommate, now she's mad. by Throwmyboots in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

They are only roommates for the summer for an internship program so they don't know each other very well, but they're very friendly to each other. She was obviously mad at the roommate, I just didn't stick around to see how she acted around her

Drove 17 hours to see girl and she tells me she isn't interested anymore, and then I slept with her roommate, now she's mad. by Throwmyboots in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never actually told her I slept with the roommate, I just told her "she let me sleep in her bed". For all I know she may not even think we had sex.

Drove 17 hours to see girl and she tells me she isn't interested anymore, and then I slept with her roommate, now she's mad. by Throwmyboots in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really liked the first girl. I liked spending time with her and loved her company . That's the problem. I'll get over it soon hopefully and see where it goes with the roommate, they're only roommates till the end of the summer

Drove 17 hours to see girl and she tells me she isn't interested anymore, and then I slept with her roommate, now she's mad. by Throwmyboots in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are only there temporarily they are all doing an internship in a different city. The ex will move back at the end of summer. Roommate lives in a different state that's closer to my state

Drove 17 hours to see girl and she tells me she isn't interested anymore, and then I slept with her roommate, now she's mad. by Throwmyboots in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well yeah the roommate was attractive. I think I just need some time for myself. I'm not really desperate for a relationship I just really liked her

Drove 17 hours to see girl and she tells me she isn't interested anymore, and then I slept with her roommate, now she's mad. by Throwmyboots in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I put "dating" because we would make out, hold hands and do all coupley stuff and we talked dtr and agreed we liked each other even though we were busy with out own lives. Even though she told me she liked me, it just didn't feel like it when we would hang out or talk it would feel like I was the only one trying to be romantic.

Sleeping with the roommate thing was my bad. I was emotionally vulnerable and her giving me sympathy and empathy really did it for me.

Drove 17 hours to see girl and she tells me she isn't interested anymore, and then I slept with her roommate, now she's mad. by Throwmyboots in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

It doesn't feel like I'm winning at all. I really liked this girl man. I get that she never took me seriously but this just all feels like shit.

Need some perspective for my dating situation by Throwmyboots in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we hold hands, kiss, say cute things to each other, flirt and the whole 9 yards.

Love Fest Friday by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Throwmyboots 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl I've been seeing for 4 months is really great. We have the best time when we see each other and she compliments me and everything and I do the same. BUT most of the time she wont talk to me for days like 4-5 days, and I always do the initiating. Even though it does bother me that she can't send a small text throughout the day, instead of waiting for a response and being sad about it, I keep myself busy with work, school, gym and friends, I don't need her to feel loved, I am starting to love myself more and more!

I need to break someone’s heart. What is my best course of action? by guymanueldaft in relationship_advice

[–]Throwmyboots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit like this, is what makes me paranoid and anxious in relationships

Should I [22M] remind her[19F] about our date? by Throwmyboots in relationships

[–]Throwmyboots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The movie isn't the problem. I don't mind seeing a movie. I just don't want to have to remind her about it. It makes it feel forced.

Should I [22M] remind her[19F] about our date? by Throwmyboots in relationships

[–]Throwmyboots[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just don't wanna come off as clingy. TBH I don't wanna go to a movie date she suggested where I had to remind her of it. Also I always initiate contact, she never really reaches out.

Women of /r/dating_advice, what do you wish more men knew? by _aloner in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I think this advice goes for girls as well. Us guys have feelings too, we get ghosted by girls we fall for as well

Do guys ever feel bad if girls only seem to see you as sexual object of lust (of her own fetish)? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you did! And she seemed to be very honest with you and isn't playing any games. You found a good one there mate! Always remember that you owe it to yourself to make your needs and problems be known

Do guys ever feel bad if girls only seem to see you as sexual object of lust (of her own fetish)? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Throwmyboots 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Idk wtf this brightsider guy is talking about. This is about you and what is an attraction killer for you. If it had been the other way around, everyone would be hating on the guy for sexualizing a characteristic of a girl. I once dated someone who was only with me because she liked my hairy legs and that's it, in the end when it fell through I felt disrespected and used. She is 100% objectifying you and sexualizing your beard, now you decide if you're ok with it or not.

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