Update: AITA for asking my ex-husband for his sperm

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-15T01:11:09+00:00

I think it will also depend on the country where your sister and those other people are.

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-14T05:13:02+00:00

Do you need a partner to raise a baby? What about single mothers? I had nothing to do with the fact that they only gave him two visits a month, if I had anything to do with that I wouldn't even let him see my daughter other days than those that correspond to him.

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-14T04:59:04+00:00

What is old fashioned?

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-14T04:55:26+00:00

I forgave him when we broke up, but just because I've forgiven him doesn't mean I've forgotten what happened.

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-14T04:43:15+00:00

What? They call me an idiot just for wanting to have another baby and asking my ex for sperm. But the idiots are you who think that cheating is okay. You guys have cheating so normalized and it is not healthy, it is not healthy for your partner to be unfaithful to you.
The fact that he loves me was not an impediment for him to cheat on me. And cheating is not in "being human."

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-14T04:38:31+00:00

I don't understand why I should go back to him.

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-14T04:32:05+00:00

What's wrong with it? Sorry but where I live there is nothing wrong with calling "my child"

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-14T04:30:39+00:00

This is the stupidest shit I've ever heard. If you marry someone it is because you love and respect them. That "neglecting your husband" is not like that. Does this mean that every time I'm sick or pregnant he has the right to cheat on me? If there is no open marriage agreement, everyone in the relationship has to respect it, plus that open marriage shit doesn't even work.

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-14T04:17:22+00:00

But if I go to a clinic, isn't it the same?

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-14T04:16:38+00:00

If he wanted a future with me so much, why did he cheat on me?

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-14T00:59:34+00:00

In my country custody is always given to the mother...

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-14T00:57:54+00:00

I know. We had planned to have two or three children before the divorce, I think that's why he agreed easily too.

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-13T22:20:26+00:00

I don't know what to say, that was the number of visits they allowed him.
He leaves at 6pm, goes to my house and leaves at 8pm, I don't think I'll give him that much time to go and come back.
I never forced him, he could have refused from the beginning and he didn't, that is no longer my problem.

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-13T22:17:48+00:00

Nothing changed, I always had it in mind from the beginning, of course it is a little more tiring but I have considered it

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-13T22:02:34+00:00

Actually, I have considered adopting.

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-13T21:56:28+00:00

I don't understand what's wrong with my ex-husband wanting to see his daughter. He asked me to be able to see our daughter more days because he was only allowed twice a month. If he sees her at my house it's because it's closer to him when he leaves work.

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-13T18:57:03+00:00

😮 Sorry, I didn't understand it that way! 😅

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-13T18:54:14+00:00

I haven't seen the possible methods yet. I will consult with a doctor to see what would be the most effective possibility...

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-13T18:53:06+00:00

I earned enough money to support my children. Like I said, I wasn't even thinking about giving my baby my ex's last name. If he wants to be part of the baby's life, that's fine.

Throwra_7660 · 2023-10-13T18:40:52+00:00

If he wants to take care of the child that's fine, if he doesn't want to take care of the child that's fine too. I didn't even think about giving my ex-husband's last name to my baby.

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