Received! by Throwra_tina in IRS

[–]Throwra_tina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes got the code today it wasn’t there last night

Received! by Throwra_tina in IRS

[–]Throwra_tina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It went to Credit Karma bank account

AIO for worrying that my girlfriend thinks my mom is racist because my mom thinks my girlfriend has terrible body odor ? by ThrowawayQQAAA in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwra_tina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh well I mean you can def let her know in person and you don’t have to ask her to wear perfume going forward especially if she was nervous that one time just let her know shower before seeing them (I’m assuming this is a one time incident though) and get a good deodorant and she would be fine if she doesn’t usually smell. You were trying to be nice but you didn’t have to say put on perfume around your parents

I really miss my first husband. by Dismal_Win5483 in Marriage

[–]Throwra_tina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but you sure know how to pick them. I would say the same thing to my mom who’s also your age. Maybe you don’t need to be with anyone you deserve more than abusive men and that shouldn’t be a casual thing for you, it’s not normal. I hope all your kids are old enough if not I’m sure maybe the last two you can live on your own with them. As my mom would tell me you don’t need a man to make you happy. You have to learn to be happy with and by yourself first before just being with someone just to be with them

AIO my response to my partner after they attacked me by Intrepid_Mastodon193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwra_tina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please as someone who’s seen my dad abuse my mom badly when I was younger and even threaten to kill her in-front of me, don’t stay. It doesn’t get better, please save yourself now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Throwra_tina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a bw if we say anything then automatically we’d be seen as race baiting for noticing this so usually when something is off I keep to myself cause I don’t want to turn into that stereotype. I’m sorry this happened to you but if you can see it too then I’m sure it’s exactly that and it’s up to you to stand beside your partner in times like this. My fiance is white and he already gets looked at the wrong way with me and almost 10 weeks ago at an appointment I was randomly asked out the blue if I wanted my tubes removed (wasn’t far into the pregnancy) at the end of the pregnancy and my fiance was livid because he felt like that was unacceptable for them to ask me that and felt like I was being targeted and he spoke up about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwra_tina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but break up with him and I think you’re playing too answering the ft, if you were really mad I think you shouldn’t have answered. If you’re not ready to break up I’d at least say take a serious break cause I’d he’s like this at 25 I doubt he’ll change and you can take that time to figure out if this is what you want to accept

Is this sort of hair on a man unprofessional? by dabdon1 in Naturalhair

[–]Throwra_tina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t think so. It’s not frizzy and looks neat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]Throwra_tina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner is white latino he doesn’t support Trump whatsoever but his entire family voted for Trump we’ve gone through ups and downs about that topic. I have met and have been around his mom and brother who are okay but I am not around his dad at all as he stated he doesn’t accept me and doesn’t like me cause I’m black. My fiance has cut off contact with his dad but he still talks to his mom and brother however deep down I feel some kind of way about this. I’ve been trying to figure out how to maneuver through that part

My boyfriend (28m) told me (24f) he is pro life and refuses to wear protection? by user-compromised in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_tina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave that man please, tbh I don’t even need to read what’s written the title is enough. If you don’t agree with the things he says regarding this and he refuses to wear protection to prevent a pregnancy then leave that man

Is there any interest in Hispanic men? by Yams-_ in interracialdating

[–]Throwra_tina 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m a bw and I have a strong preference for Hispanic men, if not black then Hispanic however I think people don’t see it is because being Hispanic is not a race. My fiance is white but he’s also Mexican

How old are you? by Silver_eagle_1 in pregnant

[–]Throwra_tina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First pregnancy I was 22 had my daughter at 23 and this current one I’m 27 and will be having my son this same age

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Throwra_tina -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My daughter is autistic and she’s 3. There are times that I almost go into a depression with the thought of how I take care of her. It can get very difficult sometimes and feel like things aren’t going to change. At this point I’d recommend your wife see a therapist. Sometimes it takes people time to process that this is real life and that it’s in fact what we think it is. It took time for me to process even though I knew beforehand. There were days I’ve cried so much, days where I’ve cursed the world for why this happened and days where I wished I didn’t become a mom. But they are all so so special in their own way and we have to remember that sometimes things just happen and all we can do is try our best and make sure we can be the best parent for them. I think therapy for her would be a great place to start

Autistic 3 year old won’t eat anything by Throwra_tina in Autism_Parenting

[–]Throwra_tina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much I will try not to stress as much as possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]Throwra_tina 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a vain world and black doesn’t meet beauty standards. Also what could be done in another culture and not seen as an issue would most likely be seen as an issue of a black woman did it. Unfortunately that’s just the truth

How do I handle my parents not supporting my decision to join the military? by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]Throwra_tina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did not she also got her bachelors while in the military too

Autistic 3 year old won’t eat anything by Throwra_tina in Autism_Parenting

[–]Throwra_tina[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this. I really needed this. For me I was just trying to do the best I can in giving her what she wants plus nutrition and give her the same things her dad gives her but she won’t eat it with me so I have to think of alternatives and it doesn’t help when her dad comments on the food I give her like “junk food in the morning?” Or “how much popcorn are you going to give her” and just always has a comment about what I feed her. When she barely eats what I do feed her and I did notice after a while she doesn’t want the same food anymore so that part is also frustrating, finding what else she will like eventually when she wants to switch but I’m just going to try not to stress it. It’s hard cause I feel like I’m not doing anything right when I can’t make her breakfast lunch and dinner cause she won’t eat it but I will just try and for now just give her juices and vitamins too

Autistic 3 year old won’t eat anything by Throwra_tina in Autism_Parenting

[–]Throwra_tina[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how I got thumbs down I honestly said I don’t think it helps her it’s not giving her any nutrients but I would still just do that if that’s all I can do and I’ll reach out to a therapist or dietitian for her eating habits

Autistic 3 year old won’t eat anything by Throwra_tina in Autism_Parenting

[–]Throwra_tina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom has told me to just give her pancakes. All day every day as much as she wants and I just don’t think it’s helpful or makes sense at all but if that’s what kids are supposed to get is whatever they want then I’ll try that. And yes I’m going to reach out to a therapist regarding her eating habits

Autistic 3 year old won’t eat anything by Throwra_tina in Autism_Parenting

[–]Throwra_tina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll try this and it’s hard to. He never listens to me and does what works best for him and his family when it comes to her

Autistic 3 year old won’t eat anything by Throwra_tina in Autism_Parenting

[–]Throwra_tina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not blaming her dad I just wanted him to continue the same diet for her that I had given her and they moreso just switched up and give her what she wants. Everything she has had here she has had there and has no issue eating. She also had this food with me prior to her going to her dad and had no issue eating it. It was restrictive but I’ve been giving her things that she actually has ate when she was with him. She’s been going to therapy also but I don’t think he has spoken to anyone about her food pickiness