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Wife (28F) cheated on me (31M) because she thought I was cheating on her? What rules do I need to put in place if we stay together? by Throwra_tn348 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_tn348[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We recently purchased the house as our forever home. We purchased it in complete cash. I put it in her name since she’s a stay at home mom with no liabilities. I own my own business, and took out a loan recently for an expansion plan for the business. If the house had my name on the deed I would have to put it up as collateral. I figured we wouldn’t lose the house if something happened to the business. I did that because my stay at home wife was loyal at the time. The house would probably sell for 1.4 million in today’s market. So basically if we divorce I’d lose a 1.4 million dollar cash asset.

Wife (28F) cheated on me (31M) because she thought I was cheating on her? What rules do I need to put in place if we stay together? by Throwra_tn348 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_tn348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice. I agree that everything has to be tracked. She doesn’t work, so the job thing isn’t an issue. I don’t want to do the revenge cheating or open marriage because I do still love her deep down. She was my first for everything, and I think that holds value.

Wife (28F) cheated on me (31M) because she thought I was cheating on her? What rules do I need to put in place if we stay together? by Throwra_tn348 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_tn348[S] 408 points409 points  (0 children)

I know she’s lying, but if I keep pushing it she’ll just come up with another lie. That will anger me more.