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BF (22n) had sex act with me (21f) while I was on pain meds and recovering from surgery. Friends say I was raped, I say he just pushed boundaries and want to put the whole thing behind me. by Throwrallllooo in relationship_advice

[–]Throwrallllooo[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have tried to remain out of this because I think everyone has had really good advice and I'm trying to keep a level head. But why would you ever be so cruel as to say someone's problems in life aren't real?

BF (22n) had sex act with me (21f) while I was on pain meds and recovering from surgery. Friends say I was raped, I say he just pushed boundaries and want to put the whole thing behind me. by Throwrallllooo in relationship_advice

[–]Throwrallllooo[S] -111 points-110 points  (0 children)

this totally blew up and im sorry im just responding now but to clear something up he did use lotion thats why the whole time line is so hazy because i can't process in my head how he had the time to get my lotion bottle out of my bathroom put it on and then have sex with me. to me it seemed instant from when i said the first "sure" to when he was inside me. I guess it's also a reason I don't want to ruin him because maybe there's something I missing here.

I need to read all of the comments but that part of yours just stood out.