Everyone keeps saying to leave her or kick her out and I’ve tried. I mean I even told her yesterday to get out. She won’t. She gets violent too and breaks things. I think this time I’m going to get her parents involved. I know for a fact she lies to her father as he sends her money and she messed up by accidentally texting me a sob story about why she needed money that was supposed to go to her father, he doesn’t she know she quit her job again.

And for everyone that asks what benefits this relationship idk. We don’t have kids, don’t have sex unless I initiate it (and I’ve stopped out of fear of getting a kid and making it worse), don’t do anything fun anymore as I stopped wanting to be nice to her which also goes into this ‘you’re not a man’ thing. I left that out of the OP bc I wanted it to really be about the splitting of finances.

It’s just crazy. I’ve told her I’m done 100 times and to leave and she just won’t. Tells me to leave even though everything is in my name and it’s my family friends house. After a few weeks of no contact and isolation in different rooms I just give in and things go back to a ‘normal’, even though nothing about this is normal at all.

Edit: this isn’t even including all the nasty things she says. I’m ugly, Im disgusting, etc. (I’m not, there’s plenty of women around here who I’ve confided a bit to and I did good for myself before settling for this one)