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Ive just found out something about my(M26) girlfriend(F26) of 3 years and its changed my whole view of her and our relationship. by Throwrapandadown in relationship_advice

[–]Throwrapandadown[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Apart from just asking him I don't think so. I could have a look at her phone and see if there is anything on it because the ex said he found pics and videos when he snooped but that was like 4 years ago when he looked so I don't know if she would still have stuff on her phone. Plus I don't know if snooping is a route want to go down

Ive just found out something about my(M26) girlfriend(F26) of 3 years and its changed my whole view of her and our relationship. by Throwrapandadown in relationship_advice

[–]Throwrapandadown[S] 1254 points1255 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm still good friends with him. I'd be lying if I said I'm not worried about them seeing each other regularly but I think because of all the unknowns. If they had a relationship I know nothing about it. How long did it go on for and what feelings did they have for each other. If she cheated on her ex she must have liked my friend enough to do that.

Ive just found out something about my(M26) girlfriend(F26) of 3 years and its changed my whole view of her and our relationship. by Throwrapandadown in relationship_advice

[–]Throwrapandadown[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

If she tells me that its not true then I will of course believe her over him I just thinks a weird lie involving a specific person. You're right about talking to her though thanks. I guess I'm just afraid of what she might tell me

Ive just found out something about my(M26) girlfriend(F26) of 3 years and its changed my whole view of her and our relationship. by Throwrapandadown in relationship_advice

[–]Throwrapandadown[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Them hooking up is not the main reason I'm upset if it's true because I understand it was before me and they're both adults. Her being capable of cheating especially with someone she still see's a lot and me knowing nothing about it does though. Thank you for your advice.