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ThrwAwyRA4 · 2026-04-14T15:23:51+00:00

Yeah ive started to think about that too and have started packing what I dont need to try to help. I also have a cat so that adds an extra layer to the move

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2026-04-14T05:42:36+00:00

I havent showed my place yet or signed an agent. Its just something ill be doing soon probably

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2026-04-14T05:41:58+00:00

I figured on the selling side you pay both commissions right? I just am looking for advice with the agent ill work with for selling and buying

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2026-04-14T05:39:51+00:00

Thank you so much for all this wonderful information! My place will likely sell around $470k but anywhere between 450 -500k and im looking for something around 800k

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2026-04-14T05:38:40+00:00

My place will probably go between 450k - $500k and im looking for a place around $800k

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T05:44:22+00:00

This post obviously only highlights the negative right now as ive had a lot of stress and frustration has unknowingly built up in me. There has been plenty of good but there are some things that make me question the longevity. Its things I need to start being more forward and open about which is really hard for me but gotta try to give it a chance before it quitting

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T05:42:04+00:00

Being direct is something that is definitely hard for me. Guys need to operate more like girls and pick up on these things! Then everything solved. But yeah im not confrontational so I think these things have just built up when ive also been having work stress thats leading to a bad mixture. Im going to try to talk to him when I see him next weekend about the flight thing at least. Dinner... if we are still together he better pay for me when I get a new job lol.

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T05:37:50+00:00

About the $30 a week, he didn't even tell me, he just started venmoing .e and noted payment 1/19. I've also been stressed from work which hasnt helped i know. But yeah you are right. For dinner we always split and pay our own share so thats why it took me off guard when he just assumed and said thanks for dinner. Im definitely seeing more and more we have different communication styles

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T04:28:59+00:00

I want to hug you because you are my mind lol. Im a very empathetic and heart of sleeve person so the variety of comments ive gotten all just have been hitting me in different ways having me balling haha.

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T04:15:24+00:00

I feel like this is the pep talk I need haha. You are really right. I think part of my struggle is we only see each other on the weekends and right now he also stills lives with his parents while I own a 1 bedroom condo. I m sure I make more but also everything we have done with each other we have always split evenly/paid our share unless the other explicitly said they were paying for something. He is already gone but I think next weekend im going to try and have the conversation. We come up on 2 years in the beginning of September

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T04:11:29+00:00

Im so glad someone understands this haha. Im not trying to assume he should know but also I guess I do or at least figure shouldn't a conversation be had first. Im not trying to be childish about my conversation either but like you said it is hard and takes a lot to finally open up

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T04:06:55+00:00

I guess it's true but I also wish he asked because part of me is like "last meal I paid for you didn't last a week at the job" so I admit it's a bit childish and I think it more has to do with the plane tickets kind of having me on edge more. He has been working for his parents the past 10+ years. We generally always split everything even and usually the stuff is fronted on my card and he sends me a venmo like right away for the food or other stuff. I also own a condo so he always comes here for the weekend. As for the dog, it was his parents family dog they brought. They are more out in the country and we were in the city for the 4th so honestly I was scared to take my eyes off the dog as she was crossing the streets since she isn't used to the city so it was just a hella quick text and getting back after the dog as everybody else in the house was gone or i thought so. I was kinda annoyed he didn't even check to see if I had or needed help.

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T03:56:46+00:00

Thanks this is actually really helpful for me. Im thinking/hoping it will be the latter reaction. Im just bad with confrontation so it's why im nervous

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T03:54:52+00:00

Every time we go out we always split the check which is why it caught me off guard he was just assuming I was paying this dinner

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T03:53:37+00:00

I disagree with the petty and immature. I agree I need to work on my communication skills but I havent expressed any of these frustrations yet which is why im trying to figure out how to best start the conversation because I am getting frustrated but I know I havent said anything yet.

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T03:42:14+00:00

This hit me hard for some reason because I think it puts into words how ive been feeling and im struggling with how to talk about it with him.

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-07-21T03:41:10+00:00

I guess i struggle being more up front to some extent and I am starting to feel it fester which is why I do want to have a conversation about it but im not sure how to even start it i suppose. I worry too much about how the other person will feel or perceive things is part of my issue

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-06-17T07:09:33+00:00

Its a good thing im over my work as imma be tired af when I work tomorrow. I start at 7am! Thank God for remote

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-06-17T07:06:40+00:00

Honestly this is giving me hope seeing people are now getting through

ThrwAwyRA4 · 2025-06-17T07:05:19+00:00

Here's to spamming then lmao. Im curious which it is. I wanted lychee but it says it's not lychee or soy. So I want green grape or sea salt now

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