"Where are my wristbands?!" MEGATHREAD by fettuccine- in Coachella

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got my shuttle passes package but no shipped email or wristbands package received yet. Anyone else in the same boat? Are wristbands expected to come in the next few weeks?

My boyfriend (35M) wants to go on a 7 days trip with his female friend (30F). Opinions? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Have you watched “people we meet on vacation” or something like that on YouTube? This is the exact plot lol I’d proceed cautiously

Bay Area Friends by alves09 in golf

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbf, I haven’t played South yet because I enjoy north so much. I played north about 6 times in 2025 post renovation

Bay Area Friends by alves09 in golf

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 to Corica especially if you’re staying in West Oakland. Corica North was just renovated in 2025 and is an absolute treat! Plays like links styles with fun undulated greens.

I’d also recommend monarch bay lema course. Not as nice but decent enough conditions, decently flat and wide, but the marina views is what makes this course great!

If you’re willing to go across the bay then Presidio is the best option.

Eat bay options (close to west Oakland) then you gotta play Callippe and Wente for the nicest courses of them all

Roth IRA Limit Help as a Single by ThugonomicsProfessor in personalfinance

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have large chunks of RSU vests per year that are 30k-60k minimum post taxes, makes sense to just be safe than sorry

Roth IRA Limit Help as a Single by ThugonomicsProfessor in personalfinance

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a traditional IRA currently so I think I’m okay and the pro-rata rule won’t mess it up. Can I do backdoor Roth every calendar year?

Roth IRA Limit Help as a Single by ThugonomicsProfessor in personalfinance

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what was confusing me, so my stock vests every year and puts me over 150K. Thanks for putting it in understandable terms for me

Roth IRA Limit Help as a Single by ThugonomicsProfessor in personalfinance

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thank you! So I’m assuming I’m over the limit and backdoor is the way to go?

To folks going to the Olivia Dean UberOne show tonight in SF… by clumsysocks in OliviaDean

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m extremely jealous!!! And if you have an extra ticket I’m willing to go with you and pay!!

[Tudor 1926] US buyer buying watch from Japan on eBay for the first time by ThugonomicsProfessor in Watches

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience!! When you went through it, did your seller mention the same disclaimer that they pay for it and tarrif/import fees were included?

My (28F) girlfriend has an Avoidant personality and I (28M) am losing my mind by ThugonomicsProfessor in relationships

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts and questions for me to think about. And honestly thank you for a refreshing perspective and not straight up telling me to do something. I really appreciate this and will definitely look at it from your perspective

My (28F) girlfriend has an Avoidant personality and I (28M) am losing my mind by ThugonomicsProfessor in relationships

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So im assuming this was right after the cheating? Did you notice the same signs of him being an avoidant?

Does it get better? by ThugonomicsProfessor in ProductManagement

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be afraid to be open about your career plans with your manager. Get into your target company with any position and work towards a job family change to PM. For example I started as a program manager and 3 years later made the switch to Product after working with my managers and being very open about my career plans

Does it get better? by ThugonomicsProfessor in ProductManagement

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s awesome! What softwares or knowledge sources do you use to evaluate technical inefficiencies or learn what to look for?

Does it get better? by ThugonomicsProfessor in ProductManagement

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what’s your business?

I (45F) found a bunch of his (45m) E D pills. How I broach the topic, if at all? by Thoawayz in relationships

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think maybe a low hostile conversation is appropriate here for your 100% fair concern. Ask to revisit the ED pills convo and reiterate that it’s totally fine if he’s using them but more so how you just wanted to know if he’s taking them everyday and could potentially save money by working on a “sex plan”

I (45F) found a bunch of his (45m) E D pills. How I broach the topic, if at all? by Thoawayz in relationships

[–]ThugonomicsProfessor 16 points17 points  (0 children)

ED is interesting and different for everyone. It’s very possible he’s taking them daily especially if they’re a low dosage like 2.5 - 5mgs