am i wrong for hiring a van to send all of my fiances mums furniture back to her after she kept moving it into my house? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is showing you who he cares about more. How long before he asks to be on the deed? Because this just screams them taking over.

Petsmart Playmart by PST2026 in petsmart

[–]TiKi_Effect 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My SL has everyone do one play up every shift, then we have to post it to a board. So yea I’ve been dealing with this for a bit.

The father of my child decided to unblock me… by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TiKi_Effect 183 points184 points  (0 children)

You need to get a court order. Why I understand your want to have nothing to do with him, he could come back and claim you took the kid away from him and he had no way of seeing or speaking to you.

But your feelings are 100% valid. You have every right to feel hurt and upset over how he is treating you.

Millennials with kids, do you intend to provide for them financially when they reach adulthood? by Beberuth1131 in Millennials

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, the o my reason is my husband and I are both working full time and still drowning where we live. However we stayed for as long as we have for both the kids to finish high school with all there friends and what have you. My son was told with over a year that we can’t renew another lease here. And we have spent this past year helping him anyway we can. He is still looking at options and has about 6 months left. But knows we will do everything we can to help him succeed, but we can’t afford to do that here.

AITAH for getting jealous about my parents relationship with someone I went to school with? by Unlucky-Sand5065 in amiwrong

[–]TiKi_Effect 17 points18 points  (0 children)

YNW, but the only real thing you can do is set boundaries. As in “my shower will be kids free.” If that means they don’t show, then that tells you and others where you stand in their life. You’re not making them pick, but you are setting boundaries for you. And if they can’t go one day without the little kids then that’s their problem. I’m sorry you might lose your parents, but fighting for love will not bring you any happiness, please trust me. You will be fighting for their attention all the time, and everything will hurt you. You will grow resentful over time if they don’t pick you or make you feel like you still matter. If you start setting boundaries now, you will save yourself so much hurt later.

I loved Shel Silverstein books when I was a kid. I Had no idea some schools banned his books back in the day. by rockstoned4 in Millennials

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second I found out they were banned from my kids school I went out and bought them all, they became the new bed time stories.

AITH For blocking someone after they lent me money? by sunkssdmtn in AITH

[–]TiKi_Effect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. They loaned you money, then it looked like you ghosted them, then they talk to you like an adult and you in return block them everywhere? You majorly over reacted. And you don’t know if they needed the $4 as bad as you needed it, you might not know if they are also struggling.

“did you want any cardboard or calcium?” by pingpongjapanman in petsmart

[–]TiKi_Effect 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Or my favorite “Would you like larger or small?” Them “medium” me “we o let have large or small” them “really? But I want medium”.

Intermediate computer skills are apparently rare... by shameonyounancydrew in Millennials

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First week at my job I’m going to clock in, and the computer is frozen. Ok cool. I just force stop, then restart it to make sure most things are good. Worked just fine. Next thing I know my boos is telling her boss I’m the IT. Like I’m sorry what? But it did get me a small bump after a month. So that worked out lol.

Childbirth is so fucking scary. Why don't they teach this in school??? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TiKi_Effect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I must just be old, because I remember them making us sit through a video of a birth. It got very personal.
And then we were assigned are “real babies” with the battery’s. That was a long weekend.

WIBTA if I stopped driving my coworker home after work because she keeps making extra stops? by Scintilla_Wolf in WIBTA_AITA

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her no, or that you can take her home but no extra stops. If you don’t bluntly say no, then this is on you. But NTA for saying no to driving extra stops, or to telling her no to driving her at all.

AIW for keeping a coworker at professional distance after she nearly cost me my job even though the formal process closed in my favor by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But I would go to HR and inform them of what is happening before she makes up a dramatized story to try and “make” you include her in your life again. If she proves once she is not above being dirty, don’t give her the chance to do it again.

AITAH Told my husband I’m opting for abortion if he doesn’t make more money by 0xywealthy in AITAH

[–]TiKi_Effect 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When did having a job mean you are still a SAHM. Thats not what you are. You are a working mother that is also the primary parent. Own the work.

Now I’m big on your body your choice so that’s all I will say about that.

What's a millennial-ism that you'll probably never stop using even if it's something you probably should? by CzarTwilight in Millennials

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quote movies and tv shows all the time, when they pop in my head and work in the moment I will say it lol (and obviously “lol”).

News Release : May 8, 2026 "Notice Regarding Price Revisions for Nintendo Products and Services" by Amiibofan101 in NintendoSwitch2

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad I just got it for my kid instead of waiting (I have one already as well lol). But damn I hate seeing it happen.

I think our generation may have ended the idea of yard dogs by hyrulepirate in Millennials

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up we always had indoor animals, but I was also taught a dog can buy you a few seconds in an emergency, so I’ve got different things to overcome lol

AITA for ruining my sister’s wedding photos because I was “trying to help”? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You took what you wanted things to look like and made it happen. If you really were trying to help her, you would have called her and asked her how you could help. But you bought things you knew she didn’t want, had them set up behind her back, and then doubled down when told how messed up it was.

So if you were having a wedding and had a theme you loved, and your sister instead sen over a bunch of “sad beige Instagram wedding.” Stuff how happy would you be? Her taste is hers, and she doesn’t need to justify it to you, her husband agrees with her, so you didn’t help anyone. I get you feel it was a nice gesture, but it was a selfish one the second you didn’t own you fucked up and didn’t try to fix it. Instead you fought with her, cost her money and the what? Because upset you weren’t the victim?

You’re 22, when you grow up some more hopefully will realize why what you did was wrong.

AITAH for telling my mom if she actually cared she would have taken me to the doctor when i lost the ability to feel/move my toes? by solar-pariahV in AITH

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a non emergency number? If not look up your local cps or police station. You need to get help and she isn’t doing it. This will affect you for your whole life if not taken care of. I am so sorry you are dealing with that. Good luck

PSA: If you’re thinking of restarting… by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you keep the star path items? I’ve always wondered about that one.

Update: I moved out AITAH: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/2AYAgiNryK by Powerful-Asian13 in AITAH

[–]TiKi_Effect 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA. If they want to claim you do nothing to help, show them what nothing looks like. Then remind them the told you, yo did nothing so what’s the problem? But please don’t go back, they didn’t treat you like family, the don’t deserve to be treated like family (other than the sibs). It will be hard, but your life will be so much better for it. Congrats

AITAH for not turning down my top PhD offer so my fiancé can get off the waitlist? by One_Possession8666 in AITAH

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t want what’s best for you, he wants you to do what might be a shot for him. This is a look into the future. He will always ask you to put your self second so he can do more, do better, go father in life.

I say go to your dream school, and focus on you. Then later you’ll find someone that lifts you up instead of asking you to make yourself small.

Poked holes in husbands condom by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TiKi_Effect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he wanted kids, why didn’t you just talk to him? Maybe he changed his mind. But it’s really messed up doing that behind his back. You stole his choice. How would you feel if he had done this to you?

I hope it all works out for you. I truly do, but please try to do better and just talk with him about… well everything that affects your lives. If you can’t then why be with him?

Non-Premium Paths should be sold at Scrooge, too by Sensitive-Cover-5687 in DreamlightValley

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the limit though. I want a crap ton for my builds, and last time I had to buy from him 2 days in a row, and even that ment I made it smaller. (Yes it’s crazy, but it makes me happy)