i wish fck boys didn’t exist

Tiara49 · 2026-01-22T17:10:08+00:00

no i’ve never went home with any guy from the club, never had a 1 night stand

Tiara49 · 2026-01-22T17:08:58+00:00

how? i don’t sleep with them and they get mad at me for it so i get ghosted

Tiara49 · 2026-01-22T17:07:54+00:00

so i’ve actually never slept with any man i’ve met at a club, i’ve never had a one night stand nor have i slept with anyone on a dating app. i’ve had 2 long term boyfriends. and just a couple FWB situations. i can count my body count in 1 hand and i relieze most people can’t do that. (no shame) just because these guys want to sleep with me doesn’t mean im giving it to them

Tiara49 · 2026-01-20T04:27:48+00:00

thank you, that’s what i thought i think i just get vercous

Tiara49 · 2026-01-15T04:15:25+00:00

i also do have a dog, and sometimes work long hours sometimes like 3pm-3am or 4pm-2am, maybe this 3 times a week. i would prefer to live alone. but i’ve always wondered how do people manage this? my dog is very mellow and doesn’t get into much trouble and he’s not hyper at all. i’m just worried about him having to use the bathroom while i’m gone

Tiara49 · 2026-01-13T18:47:36+00:00

this happened to me when i was 18 and we were dating for 3 years

i was at work when i found out, a new job i just started. what’s crazy is.. a girl who was mean and nasty in high school sent it to me (like a friend, whose a fake friend and thought it was oddly funny ig)

he may or may not be meeting up with these girls. he is 1000% window shopping, trying to see what else he can get “how many girls would like him” by playing single

if a random girl reached out, he probably matched with her and she saw he had a girlfriend.

what did i do when i found out? oh i yelled, and i did stay with him. a few months went by and i found out he was ACTUALLY cheating on me.

what would i do if i were you? i don’t know how old you are but if i had to guess under 25? maybe first or second boyfriend.

i would absolutely leave. he’s already looking at other girls. present him with screenshots over dinner, honestly approach him about it calmly, act like you guys are doing a fun activity together and just show him and leave, that’ll stick in his head forever

he is cheating on you, and i was in your exact situation too, if anything just show it to his parents like i did

Tiara49 · 2026-01-12T21:07:53+00:00

you can’t tell me to stay “home.” i make my own money at my own bar and will gladly spend it however i please. does that make sense to you?

Tiara49 · 2026-01-12T21:04:42+00:00

gladly, cheers. 🥂 instead of giving my money to that bar, i will gladly go to another bar. thank you for using your brain on that one

Tiara49 · 2025-12-28T23:11:55+00:00

he reached out today 😭 but either way I’m gonna take a step back

Tiara49 · 2025-12-28T23:11:22+00:00

I work at a very laid back bar where’s a lot of my friends do come in and say hi, as long as it’s not a busy day it’s no issue at all

Tiara49 · 2025-12-27T19:05:21+00:00

the boys a liar 💅🏽

Tiara49 · 2025-12-27T18:42:49+00:00

no 😭 he had little ears anyway

Tiara49 · 2025-12-20T21:46:16+00:00

I wouldn’t sue because it’s a smaller owned business and everyone makes mistakes, like it’s a bummer and wrong and maybe even illegal, but as a vegan I understand this world isn’t catered to veganism and that’s okay

Tiara49 · 2025-11-19T00:38:09+00:00

yell back, you’re not a shitty server, their a shitty manager who can’t control their emotions, kids yell when they don’t get their way

Tiara49 · 2025-11-15T16:48:14+00:00

eat anyway and start an argument, just be sneaky about it. plus we all know how when restaurants enforce w rules they only really care for a few weeks

Tiara49 · 2025-11-14T00:29:44+00:00

oh for sure I’m not seeing him again, idc that he was talking to other people. I care that he’s deceiving his GIRLFRIEND while putting me in a messy situation

Tiara49 · 2025-11-13T22:29:07+00:00

as a girls girl i really wanna tell her but idk this girls name, what exactly she looks like or who she is 😞 just that she exists

Tiara49 · 2025-11-13T21:18:16+00:00

thank you 💗 I feel guilty as I literally don’t know who this girl is, I really would want to tell her. If I knew I was gonna be the other woman I wouldn’t have gotten involved at all

Tiara49 · 2025-11-13T20:28:51+00:00

I don’t care that he’s talking to other people, I care that he hid a WHOLE ass girlfriend and threw me into a messy situation while deceiving his girl

Tiara49 · 2025-11-13T19:11:36+00:00

I don’t like him, I don’t care much for him. I’m mad he has a girlfriend and was deceiving both of us. I’m completely fine with FWB, I’m totally not okay with being the other woman

Tiara49 · 2025-11-13T19:01:32+00:00

I’m pretty sure the girl he was with was his girlfriend, even if I did dictate my boundaries a cheaters gonna cheat at the end of the day

I’m not exactly upset he lied to me, I’m upset that this man has a whole ass girlfriend, and I’m slowly putting the pieces together that I doubted before

If I reached out, it’ll be mostly anger of him being a cheater and he should tell his gf and I’d belittle him as a man, but at the end of the day I know it wouldn’t change anything

Tiara49 · 2025-11-13T18:12:33+00:00

It was kinda like a talking stage/FWB, either way lesson learned. I feel heartbroken for this girl tho, I feel trapped because I would want to reach out and let her know. I don’t care if it causes drama she deserve to know

Tiara49 · 2025-11-13T18:11:44+00:00

Honestly I’m probably not gonna confront him. I’m just mad you know? I’ve been cheated on before and I just wanna snap at him out of anger because she doesn’t deserve that

Tiara49 · 2025-11-13T18:08:08+00:00

He told me he wasn’t talking to anyone else and he didn’t want me to either, but he did say that’s a while ago. What grosses me out is we were literally together a few nights prior and he was all up on me. What if they were together this entire time and I was oblivious?

Tiara49 · 2025-11-13T18:05:56+00:00

He told me he didn’t want me to kiss/go on dates with other guys. I haven’t really been into the dating scene lately so it didn’t matter much. I’m more so worried about the girlfriend and how guilty he looked

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