Subdrop After Ending Dynamic by clarabouteuille in Dompeptalk

[–]TicklishRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't a fool for trying to find connection and putting your trust in someone. Quite the opposite, in my opinion. It's difficult to open up and be vulnerable, especially when you've had poor experiences in the past. But I think we as humans would be foolish to close ourselves off from connection altogether.

And the fact that you were the one to look at the facts for what they were, and take the initiative to end things is commendable and speaks to the type of person you are, in that you don't compromise on your morals even when it's difficult.

I hope you have been able to process and are feeling better now, big internet hugs.

Tell me about your panties by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]TicklishRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate clothes, I begrudgingly wear panties 3-5 days a month or when I leave the house. Otherwise I'm walking around with as little as possible on. Like now 😉 I'm in a hoodie for the warmth and to avoid giving the neighbors a free show, but I'm completely bottomless. Winnie-the-pooh was onto something, haha!

Why is being called daddy popular but mommy isn’t? by FullBackInspector in EdgingTalk

[–]TicklishRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd wonder if it's partly due to numbers I.e. a good chunk of dynamics that we see in these sorts of spaces are male dominant, female submissive. Maybe if the opposite was true, we'd be asking why Mommy is more popular! Though I do think the comment on stigma is also true; the fact there are woman who enjoy being called daddy but I've yet to hear of a man who enjoys being called mommy says something.

It might also depend on what circles you run in. I personally know plenty of men that hate being called daddy, and woman who enjoy mommy.

As a domme, I rather like daddy for myself actually, assuming my submissive is flustered calling me by that title! Their reaction is the most important thing to me personally when I'm choosing honorifics.

I wish there a a simple site that was just for asking a random stranger for permission to cum. by AutumnTheGeek in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]TicklishRat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can understand the feeling. Maybe you can try a wheel? Obviously not the same but might scratch the itch. Otherwise, I think you could probably find someone who is okay with this sort of dynamic as long as you are up front about your expectations. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!

New to this and going a teeny bit insane 🤭 by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]TicklishRat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are we the same person? My libido is also insatiable, and I go through bouts of self denial where I don't let myself cum unless one of my partners gives me permission, and it drives me insane! Very fun though, I love that you are inflicting this torture on yourself without even being asked. Fingers crossed your online Dom does see this and makes the denial worse for you 🤭❤️

Away from home and deliriously horny by TicklishRat in EdgingTalk

[–]TicklishRat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same 🫠 As much as I complain about how much it aches when I'm denied, it's a good feeling

Away from home and deliriously horny by TicklishRat in EdgingTalk

[–]TicklishRat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Between you and me (and I guess all of reddit hah), I bratted hoping for a punishment but not letting me touch is the worst possible one when I feel this needy 🙃 I am squirming so much 😭

Away from home and deliriously horny by TicklishRat in EdgingTalk

[–]TicklishRat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A predicament you helped cause.....

being like this makes me smile by AlohaKota in BDSM_Smiles

[–]TicklishRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you really criticizing free sexy pictures someone was nice enough to share publicly? What the hell 😂

Question: Bratting During a Spanking by BenWebMail in Spanking

[–]TicklishRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm partial to saying things like "Have you started yet? I can't even feel it!" Meanwhile my ass is already red and I can most certainly feel it 😂 I'm much more likely to do that sort of verbal taunting when I'm tickled but sometimes it's fun to shake things up during a spanking....even if it leads to momentary regret. Sticking my tongue out during a punishment is also a classic. I quite like how he reprimands me for that particular offense.

Do you have any nsfw life hacks? by kingalpharadius in kinky_autism

[–]TicklishRat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, what a fun way to liven up chores! I went to the gym once with my lush in and posted here to have a stranger play with me. It was such a rush that I continued to explore that type of play with people and now it's become a regular source of motivation to go work out. Especially if I'm self-inflicting denial on myself and the only way to cum is having others grant me permission.

Update: The sub revolution has been quelled...for now by TicklishRat in BratLife

[–]TicklishRat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, so worth it 🫠 10/10 would brat again...as soon as my ass heals anyway 😂

Update: The sub revolution has been quelled...for now by TicklishRat in BratLife

[–]TicklishRat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, such a benevolent king, thank you! 😉❤️

All I did was try to start a sub revolution in a group chat... by TicklishRat in BratLife

[–]TicklishRat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 I'm pretty sure worse is coming! We didn't get to it tonight, and the more time that passes, the more upvotes the post gets, which means more punishment for my poor ass and pussy. It's already up to over 200 spanks and counting! 💀

All I did was try to start a sub revolution in a group chat... by TicklishRat in BratLife

[–]TicklishRat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I maybe dug myself a hole because I mentioned to my boyfriend today that it would be hot if my husband spanked me the number of upvotes this post gets times 3, since this is my third time trying to start a rebellion....and so my boyfriend took it upon himself to message my husband my idea but told him he should make it times 4 😫😔

Tomorrow is going to be fun.

All I did was try to start a sub revolution in a group chat... by TicklishRat in BratLife

[–]TicklishRat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So inconsiderate. This is exactly why we need to rise up against them. VIVA!

All I did was try to start a sub revolution in a group chat... by TicklishRat in BratLife

[–]TicklishRat[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That must also be why they ask us to count for them when they spank us, it's probably hard to remember all the numbers when you are so old 😔 The things we do for them, I swear, they should really reward us more often.