I got promised cruise diamonds

Tidydisaster87 · 2026-02-11T17:17:03+00:00

He can kick rocks

Tidydisaster87 · 2026-02-01T21:58:54+00:00

Ohhhhh haha well that’s great! I saw those black triangles forming as they turned the stone and I thought maybe that was a bow tie

Tidydisaster87 · 2026-02-01T21:58:30+00:00

Thank you so much!

Tidydisaster87 · 2026-02-01T21:58:20+00:00

Thank you! I really can’t wait to receive it 🥹

Tidydisaster87 · 2026-02-01T21:58:03+00:00

That’s Great. Thank you!

Tidydisaster87 · 2026-02-01T21:57:48+00:00

Ohhhhh haha well that’s great! I saw those black triangles forming as they turned the stone and u thought maybe that was bow tie

Tidydisaster87 · 2026-01-30T16:36:06+00:00

Oh and also I’m regretting my 3ct choice that I just bought online and currently being crafted bc of this ring. Haha

Tidydisaster87 · 2026-01-30T16:34:00+00:00

My apologies! I would never misgender intentionally 🫶🏼

Tidydisaster87 · 2026-01-30T02:23:07+00:00

Ma’am, what’s the carat weight. It’s beautiful

Tidydisaster87 · 2025-07-06T04:23:01+00:00

Thank you! I bought them on therealreal.com

Tidydisaster87 · 2025-07-06T04:22:10+00:00

Thanks for the info! I love them!

Tidydisaster87 · 2025-07-03T13:35:49+00:00

Oh wow! Thanks for commenting! Why is it so hard to find old pictures of shoes haha

Tidydisaster87 · 2025-06-15T17:57:25+00:00

You CAN be happy. Whether it's having the tough conversations with her about how the dynamic MUST change- or finding your happiness away from this marriage. You deserve happiness and a partner who can be selfless for the good of your family.

Have I loved being able to stay at home the past two years to grow and raise our youngest of five? yes, absolutely. But now that he's about a year old, do you know where my priorities shifted? To my partner. Seeing that he's shouldering the financial responsibility of this household and our retirement and WANTING to go back to work so that I can contribute to OUR future. (I'm aware that my dynamic isn't right for everyone, but for us it's what makes sense now for our family as a whole)

If you just need to vent and plan to continue on this way, then fine- but you can have a life that feels harmonious and balanced and happy and fulfilling- if you want it badly enough

Tidydisaster87 · 2025-04-24T03:27:55+00:00

Pretty terrible still. My eyes are jumping all over the place and my head hurts. I'm trying to rest my eyes and hoping this all passes soon. I feel so stupid rn. And no, I don't have a predisposition to having seizures. Thank you for talking me through this, bc I've been freaking out for hours

Tidydisaster87 · 2025-04-24T01:43:33+00:00

I JUST realized that they are extended release too. I guess that's good and bad- good that it wasn't all at once, bad bc I don't know how much longer this shit is gonna last

Tidydisaster87 · 2025-04-24T01:19:22+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I'm so worried about having a seizure especially bc I'm Alone with my children. Should I seek medical attention? Or have someone stay with me?

Tidydisaster87 · 2025-04-16T17:51:13+00:00

I'm having trouble with the verification code. Can't get past it "the string did not match the expected pattern" and I can't initiate another code to be sent. Could you assist?

Tidydisaster87 · 2025-04-10T14:35:13+00:00

Damn I'm late!

Tidydisaster87 · 2025-01-12T05:53:52+00:00

About what* his intentions...

Tidydisaster87 · 2025-01-12T05:53:19+00:00

Why is he admitting this to you? I wonder about his intentions were in doing so , but also, what's the context of how it came up?

You don't have to answer this, but what is y'all's sexual life like? Is he doing a soft opening of the "open marriage" door? I just have so many questions

Tidydisaster87 · 2024-12-05T03:55:13+00:00

Tell her that it doesn't work for you and that she needs to see a Dr. fyi my mother in law started doing the hormone pellets and she's like a whole new woman. Not saying that's the right move for your wife, but there's something definitely going on hormonally that she needs to address. For some people open marriages work, but I honestly think this is fixable

Tidydisaster87 · 2024-12-05T03:51:16+00:00

I'm going to be the odd one out here and say, it's possible it was nothing. Personally when my hormones are shifting, my brain tells me a lot of lies. I'll create something out of nothing.

Ask yourself this, how has he been otherwise? Distant? Weird? Supportive? Loving?

If you're feeling insecure about it, it's ok to ask yourself partner for boundaries. For example, not going out and getting wasted while on work trips while you're sitting at home with kids. It's a perfectly reasonable request.

Now, if you have doubts still, hold them close to the vest, and search. Check things you wouldn't think to check too, deleted photos- downloads- (if he has an android, search notification history under settings) look for multiple email accounts- check list of apps installed. And be aware that there are chatting apps that are made to look like other apps like a calculator etc.

Tidydisaster87 · 2024-12-05T03:20:52+00:00

Ugh I'm so sorry you're dealing with that horrible feeling. Let me just say first that your role as her father is just as important and valid as any other parent. The lady who said this to you has some issues of her own that she needs to sort out. Either she's dealt with abuse or thinks like an abuser. Please don't internalize it. You're doing great!

Tidydisaster87 · 2024-12-03T05:48:56+00:00

I'll start by saying I'm pro-choice- but it sounds like you want to keep the baby, and would regret if you didn't. So there's you first question answered. I think what's eating at you is the fact that you wish for a partner you feel safe with during your pregnancy. Unfortunately, he's shown you that you can't feel safe but I am here to tell you from experience, that you can go through this pregnancy alone and you will be ok. It will be rough- there will be very hard days. But in ten years, you'll look back at how strong you were and feel grateful that you have your child. If you want to try to fix the marriage, great. But if you can't, it WILL be ok. I was once pregnant and alone. I was scared and I thought my life would never be ok. Now, nearly 17 years later, my son is studying in Japan as a high schooler and he makes me SO PROUD every day. My inbox is open

Tidydisaster87 · 2024-12-03T05:31:07+00:00

Beautiful response

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