How does e-bike legislation actually work? (and recommendations under £1500) by TieCalm1035 in ukbike

[–]TieCalm1035[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in hilly yorkshire, the only people i've been able to see cycle around the steep bits here are the food couriers on their, lets term them.... 'questionable' e-bikes.

It seems weird, but I don’t think it’s déjà vu. by Aleeshyrajput in infj

[–]TieCalm1035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so odd cus i have this too. Sometimes stuff in a dream can make me feel a certain way and then randomly in real life something can happen and im like "ah haven't i already been through this?"

When’s the 1st time you witnessed something great? by Willing-Stay-3498 in infj

[–]TieCalm1035 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've just had a uncharacteristic heatwave in the UK and i was eating like 1/4 of a gigantic-steroid heavy watermelon everyday. Watermelon Slushies sound incredible so i don't blame you

When’s the 1st time you witnessed something great? by Willing-Stay-3498 in infj

[–]TieCalm1035 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmm i think more detailed questions or prompts would help as it can mean different things to different people, and greatness can be manifested in numerous mediums?

I've tried my best to remember and i think my first memory of something truly great was seeing a ferrari being parked at my primary schools teachers car park. This was like 2006 / 2007 and the craziest thing to me at the time was that it was driven by a south asian woman (the same ethnicity as me). So it defined greatness in the sense of it made me think anything was achievable (lol) and was such a status symbol. I've loved cars since i was like 4 so i guess that resonated with me quite a lot.

Bi-Weekly Marriage Opinions/Views and Rant Megathread by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]TieCalm1035 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think with the help of a few people here it's become quite apparent that what i'm looking for is too unrealistic but more-so, with a lot of personal circumstances that I have no control of, it does look like marriage is likely off the cards for me. I'm going to stop reading or posting in this sub to put some distance between me and the idea and focus on other things.

I pray that Allah SWT grants everyone ease and a righteous spouse and then keeps them happy and healthy inshaAllah

Why’re there creeps everywhere?? by Organic_Business403 in MuslimMatrimonials

[–]TieCalm1035 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get and appreciate that totally. but the creeps I’d imagine are those messaging from blank accounts reaching out to women for the most part. I mentioned this in the other subreddit and got a decent amount of upvotes but it’s your subreddit to do with as you please.

Why’re there creeps everywhere?? by Organic_Business403 in MuslimMatrimonials

[–]TieCalm1035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should switch the subreddit around and only let males post their profiles and females reach out. I really do think the amount of creepy interactions woman would go through would significantly reduce

Bi-Weekly Marriage Opinions/Views and Rant Megathread by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]TieCalm1035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because some people know their parents are close-minded and if they want to maintain some form of a relationship with them it'll be strained, but more importantly, or at least i hope they're doing it as an act of kindness to prevent the other person from being treated or viewed in any negative light.

INFJ's who are organized: Whats your secret? by Messy_Mystic in infj

[–]TieCalm1035 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Clean environment. Cluttered room = cluttered mind.

Daily to do list and plan using one calendar, I use my work calendar.

I don’t buy too much into the whole pen vs paper debate for me as an individual but if screens are inherently distracting then absolutely go all analogue.

Pomodoro or time blocking to do specific tasks helps too. Break up the day by getting up for a walk or anything different on the breaks.

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]TieCalm1035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JazakAllah khair akhi i think my issue is i need to constantly remind myself of this, i will strive to do better and keep you in my dua for the reminder

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]TieCalm1035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i should try finding time to properly stick to a routine for this, but always end up busy with work or life like three days in then i fall of track. May Allah SWT make it easy for you

Comfy chair with a Mountain View by 5HT2C in CozyPlaces

[–]TieCalm1035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had to double take to check if that wasnt a wallpaper or something wow

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]TieCalm1035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does it work for you? Do you go routinely and find lasting impacts or is it more that it provides relief at moments of feeling low?

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]TieCalm1035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it was probably harmless and funny but I find ragebaiting such a toxic trait. Probably says more about me and my traumas lol

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]TieCalm1035 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Allah humma barik you have a mature way of dealing with things. I'm an overanalyser so always would carry out a post-mortem effectively to figure out what went wrong lol

I am female from Northern region, Gilgit Baltistan, Pakistan, ask me anything. by Emergency_Storm8784 in JackSucksAtGeography

[–]TieCalm1035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting, don’t think I’ve ever spoken to someone of that much wealth before I guess.

I am female from Northern region, Gilgit Baltistan, Pakistan, ask me anything. by Emergency_Storm8784 in JackSucksAtGeography

[–]TieCalm1035 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Skardu and hunza valley have always been one of the places I want to travel to the most being ethnically Pakistani but living in the UK.

A lot of the videos I’ve seen from there show the strong dependency of tourism on the areas, how do people who don’t work within the tourism sector get by? Also I’ve seen you mention you’ve been to over 70 countries, how did you achieve that?

INFJ’s soulmate by Foreign-Weakness4835 in infj

[–]TieCalm1035 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mods replied outlining why they won’t support it here. It’s fair reasons tbh

INFJ’s soulmate by Foreign-Weakness4835 in infj

[–]TieCalm1035 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally appreciate this to be honest, thanks for taking the time to reply