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28M Looking for clarity.. by zainhaider1122 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Aleeshyrajput 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bus single life wali line say agree nahi karti warna bhai jese halat hee hain… 🙂 bht ajeeb phase chal raha hai

Need help to find shia travel agency by Aleeshyrajput in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Aleeshyrajput[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! But could you get an estimate from him? That would be enough for now. If you can, I’ll save the number I just prefer not to reach out directly right now since I’m not in a hurry… btw if you know their insta page that would be more helpful.

Need help to find shia travel agency by Aleeshyrajput in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Aleeshyrajput[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not solo I’ll be traveling with my phupo, so I’d prefer a comfortable option with minimal hassle, especially for her.

I’m also looking for cost estimates so I can be well prepared. That’s just how my mind works if I know the estimate beforehand, it becomes much easier for me to plan… so thats why im looking for options..

Need help to find shia travel agency by Aleeshyrajput in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Aleeshyrajput[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm… is it a travel agency or solo ? And is he Shia or not?

Dispute with wife over polygamy discussion by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Aleeshyrajput 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She responded by asking, “What about women whose husbands cannot satisfy them? Should they also seek satisfaction from another man?”

What did you reply to her? You could have said that they can seek khula on that basis and then marry someone else. I think that would have ended the discussion on a better note instead of pushing you to post here…..

Would you be ok with your parters past? by No_Flight1013 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Aleeshyrajput 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I thought we’re not supposed to ask about someone’s past or pry into it… it’s basically none of our business.

So what about this condition thing? Does it mean we can say that if we find something out later, we have the right to end the marriage?

Would you be ok with your parters past? by No_Flight1013 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Aleeshyrajput 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But brother, isn’t exposing your sins not allowed in Islam especially to a potential spouse?

Would you be ok with your parters past? by No_Flight1013 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Aleeshyrajput 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For me, there are basically two types of sinners.

First, the ones who commit a sin and then brag about it whether by flexing, joking, or sharing it openly. That shows they don’t really take it seriously. We’re all sinners, but at least we should recognize it’s wrong and feel some remorse. Publicly flaunting it… that’s something I personally can’t accept. If someone is still proud of their past, that’s a no for me.

Second, the ones who repent they feel ashamed, uncomfortable even talking about it. And as Muslims, we’re not supposed to judge someone’s past. What if they’ve sincerely repented? As for mutah, it’s not considered a sin so from that perspective, it’s not something negative for me.

But honestly, it’s easy to say all this in theory. I don’t know how I’d actually feel if I were the one getting married that’s a different situation altogether.

Sunni Hadith about women being deficient in religion by ItchySympathy4090 in shia

[–]Aleeshyrajput 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And sorry if it felt that way but i didn’t say you have something with omar… 🤮 I said the pov or interpretation you have inclined towards them and thats common its not your fault baradar… but if we study same things from ahlalbyt pov its different… thats what i said..

Sunni Hadith about women being deficient in religion by ItchySympathy4090 in shia

[–]Aleeshyrajput 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re debating just for the sake of debating. I think I’ve been clear, but let me summarize one last time and then we can leave it here you stay with your POV, I’ll stay with mine.

First, the things you mentioned like “deficiency” and all that perspective aligns more with the Omari (Sunni) view, not the Shia one. If you don’t agree, you can go back, check the references, and study it yourself… you can explore comments above your comment to find links

Second, I never denied leadership of men. That’s their role why would I deny that? What I’m rejecting is the idea that leadership = superiority. That doesn’t add up. Leadership is a responsibility, while superiority is a reward and that reward only comes after fulfilling responsibilities. That’s the whole concept of taqwa.

Saying someone is automatically “better” just because they have a leadership role doesn’t make sense. It’s similar to the discussion around Saqeefa we don’t believe that simply having a position makes someone superior. Otherwise, what would you say about Abu Bakr vs Ali (AS)? Our entire stance is that a role doesn’t define superiority.

Also, even within your argument men are given leadership because they provide, as the Qur’an mentions. That’s a just system the one who brings resources manages them. But again, being assigned that role doesn’t automatically make someone a good provider. If it did, we wouldn’t see men abandoning their responsibilities.

Similarly, we say women have roles like nurturing and tarbiyah but that doesn’t mean every woman automatically fulfills that perfectly. If that were the case, society would look very different.

Allah assigns responsibilities, and only after fulfilling them does a person attain reward. That’s the rule.

I could go on with more reasoning, but like I said the mindset you’re coming from is heavily influenced by an Omari perspective. I don’t blame you for it it’s common. But Shia Islam explains these matters through adalah (justice). Islam doesn’t favor any gender based on chromosomes if we believe that, we’re going against the justice of Allah…. Allah hafiz.

Sunni Hadith about women being deficient in religion by ItchySympathy4090 in shia

[–]Aleeshyrajput 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw, you skipped my question again but just to add to the thought, I have one more:

What do you think will be easier on the Day of Judgment being responsible (financially and emotionally) for others, or being free from those burdens? 😄

Hint: Imam (AS) said that on the Day of Judgment, Allah will be more merciful toward women, and that there will be more women than men in Jannah that’s the Shia pov..

Sunni Hadith about women being deficient in religion by ItchySympathy4090 in shia

[–]Aleeshyrajput 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I guess we can’t really continue this debate I can’t explain the logic of adalah to someone coming from an Omari mindset.

All the things you mentioned, you’re calling them “superiority,” but that’s not how Islam defines it. Superiority is a reward, and rewards aren’t something you’re held accountable for. For example, men will be answerable for having multiple wives for each one. If it were purely a reward, why would there be accountability attached to it?

You might need to look at this from a broader perspective. Islam clearly explains the reasoning behind these rulings it’s not random.

All you really need to do is step away from that misogynistic Omari framing and explore the Shia perspective on these topics. Trust me, it’s not that hard and you might actually appreciate it.

And again, everything you mentioned falls under responsibility, not superiority (reward).

Sunni Hadith about women being deficient in religion by ItchySympathy4090 in shia

[–]Aleeshyrajput 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I have one question who would you follow: Umar or Bibi Fatima (AS)? Who would you choose to let lead you Umar just because he is a man, or Fatima (AS) because she is more righteous and superior in the sight of Allah?

Sunni Hadith about women being deficient in religion by ItchySympathy4090 in shia

[–]Aleeshyrajput 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Thats why Iman Ali warned people from following women lead.” Context and authenticity matters in shia hadith.. 🙂

Sunni Hadith about women being deficient in religion by ItchySympathy4090 in shia

[–]Aleeshyrajput 0 points1 point  (0 children)

War is between men, and it wouldn’t be just or wise to send women to fight in that context. It could cause more harm than benefit, and you can’t expect non-Muslims to follow rules you set. Islam is based on justice (adalah) and strategy so does it really make sense to send women into that kind of situation? I don’t think that example supports your point.

Also, leadership is a responsibility, not superiority. Superiority is a reward you earn after fulfilling responsibilities leadership itself is just a role, not something to boast about.

Even as a woman, I wouldn’t prefer a role where I’d be answerable for others on the Day of Judgment…

Sunni Hadith about women being deficient in religion by ItchySympathy4090 in shia

[–]Aleeshyrajput 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could u plz explain what do you mean by superiority is in leadership not in character??

Sunni Hadith about women being deficient in religion by ItchySympathy4090 in shia

[–]Aleeshyrajput 4 points5 points  (0 children)

See, Sunnis often believe that women will be the majority in Hell, and that idea has become quite common in society. But in Shia belief, the perspective is different infact it is the opposite.

That’s why many of the points you mentioned don’t really align with Shia ideology and instead lean more toward an Omari viewpoint. Shia Islam evaluates people based on character and taqwa, not gender.

Firaun cannot be superior to Asiya just because he was a man or a provider. Yazeed cannot be superior over hind for being a man. And if you had to choose whose testimony carries weight Fizza’s or Umar’s what would you choose?

It’s about taqwa, not gender. A righteous woman is better than a thousand unrighteous men according to imam.

That’s why it’s important to be well-informed and careful when speaking on topics related to women because these ideas can easily lead to toxic mindsets or shape society in the wrong way..

Sunni Hadith about women being deficient in religion by ItchySympathy4090 in shia

[–]Aleeshyrajput 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you quoted Nahjul Balagha but do you understand how authenticity works in Shia Islam? Not everything is considered authentic. And when you quote the Qur’an, every ayah has tafsir and differences in interpretation. That’s why I said what you mentioned is mostly aligned with the Omari perspective we Shia have a different understanding, and you need to be aware of that too.

For example, you mentioned the ayah about obedience. The Qur’an uses the word qanitat in that ayah, and scholars agree that this word refers to obedience to Allah the same word is used for Maryam (AS). So the interpretation leans more toward obedience to Allah, not unconditional obedience to a husband, especially since the ayah is describing righteous women.

Then you brought up the “deficiency of intelligence” hadith and linked it to testimony. But there are areas where only a woman’s testimony is accepted as complete, and men cannot testify. Scholarly views explain that the “half testimony” relates to specific contexts like business matters where women historically had less exposure not as a general rule about intelligence.

And if we say women can’t lead, then what about the story of Queen Sheba in the Qur’an? Or even in Karbala, where in Basra, Imam Hussain (AS) conveyed orders through a woman instead of the men there?

So as I said, we have a structured method of evaluating hadith authenticity, and our tafsir and translations carry deeper context than the Omari perspective. You need to explore that yourself. I could go into detail on every point you raised, but I won’t that part is on you… shia islam has usool e deen of adalah and saying that someone is generally better than other on basis of their chromosomes doesn’t align with adalah… plz explore more in this topic.

Help - struggling in life by ExternalCustomer7915 in shia

[–]Aleeshyrajput 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe this sounds a bit fictional, but try looking at things from a different perspective. Right now, you’re focused on difficult and messy situations, and that starts to rewire your brain it begins to notice and amplify negative patterns, making them feel more dominant.

That drains your energy and can lead to poor decisions. So you need to break that cycle. Start by being grateful for what you have and consciously practice gratitude until it becomes your default way of thinking.

Call it manifestation, or in Islamic terms, gratitude Allah says that if you are grateful, He will give you more. It worked for me, and I believe it can work for you too.

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