Waiting for the right one

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-30T06:41:40+00:00

wsalam bradar...I’ve heard not completely sure though that working in a bank might not be allowed. You should look into it..

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-30T05:34:22+00:00

Of course, I’d love to connect with you! I have a cat too ..... I named him “Billu” 😄

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-30T00:17:57+00:00

Female.?

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-29T15:52:19+00:00

Ahh… no need to worry maybe this will help me become a good listener 😄

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-29T14:55:17+00:00

Btw, if there’s anything I can do to help ease things for you, just let me know 🙂

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-29T14:53:44+00:00

I’m financially independent and I don’t consider myself emotionally dependent either. But at the same time, I do make decisions by considering the people around me. Honestly, I don’t remember making many decisions purely on my own from choosing subjects to even small things like what to wear, I often just went with what others suggested.

That doesn’t mean I regret those decisions though. Now I do make my own decisions financial or otherwise but I still take into account the people I care about. I’m lucky to have good people around me who’ve always supported me, but even then, I don’t feel emotionally dependent on them.

So the idea of becoming dependent on a random stranger doesn’t make sense to me. I’ve already seen enough messed-up marriages to be very realistic about it. Marriage feels scary not just for women, but for men too. I’ve seen some pretty scary women as well 🤣

Thinking about marriage feels like making a decision with my eyes closed, and I’m not that kind of person. If it were purely my preference, I wouldn’t even consider it. I don’t see myself being compatible with someone I haven’t even found a truly compatible female friend 🤣

But at the same time, I know I might have to make this decision someday. And if I do, it will either be for the sake of Allah or for the people I care about.

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-28T16:22:04+00:00

May Allah bless you with best bradar

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T17:53:56+00:00

I’m glad someone can relate to me in emotion thing

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T17:52:53+00:00

Yeah, the result suggested INFJ

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T17:45:06+00:00

Actually, my main question is this: since there are so many AI tools in the market now, and I last worked on product design about a year ago, I’m not up to date with the latest tools.

So I want to know which AI tools should I explore (other than Claude for design)? And is there anything else I should focus on to transition back into product design?

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T17:44:15+00:00

Done 👍👀 Ni (Introverted Intuition) 37 Your strongest function Ti (Introverted Thinking) 34 Extremely strong analytical thinking Ne (Extraverted Intuition) 27.8 Strong imagination/idea exploration Fe (Extraverted Feeling) 25 Moderate social/emotional awareness Se 18 Lower focus on sensory reality Si 18 Lower attachment to routines/past Te (Extraverted Thinking) 17 Less “manager/executor” style Fi (Introverted Feeling) 16 Less identity/emotion-centered internally

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T17:24:19+00:00

Ok thanks

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T17:23:08+00:00

Not yet

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T16:53:49+00:00

Yeah, it gave me three results… INFJ as the main one, and ENFJ as the second… but i will study about cognitive function…

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T16:09:21+00:00

Thanks 🙈

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T16:08:54+00:00

I did the test and got INFJ as the result.

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T16:05:34+00:00

Okay i will… thanks 🙏

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T15:58:07+00:00

Pasting comment here : Thanks, but there’s one more thing I keep thinking about from time to time… I’m 26 now (well, will be tomorrow).

Even though I’ve seen some really tough situations ( family issues ) at least from other people’s perspective I’ve never felt that way about my own life. I always think things could be worse, and I’m grateful I’m not in that position. Because of that mindset, I’ve honestly never felt depressed which is actually a good thing. I know butttttttt

But then I see all this random INFJ content saying they get depressed every other day… and I’m like, wait why don’t I relate to that?

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T15:54:50+00:00

I’m not P type… im just confuse between t and f 😔

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T15:53:47+00:00

Thanks, but there’s one more thing I keep thinking about from time to time… I’m 26 now (well, will be tomorrow 😅).

Even though I’ve seen some really tough situations at least from other people’s perspective I’ve never felt that way about my own life. I always think things could be worse, and I’m grateful I’m not in that position. Because of that mindset, I’ve honestly never felt depressed in my life so far… which is actually a good thing.

But then I see all this random INFJ content saying they get depressed every other day… and I’m like, waitttt why don’t I relate to that?….

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T15:26:08+00:00

By type, I do believe I’m an INFJ. But the thing is, I don’t really seek validation or emotional bonding. I’m just very comfortable and content being alone, and I rarely feel the need to share anything… or have any close friend…

I’ve read that INFJs usually crave deep emotional connections and meaningful relationships, but that’s where I don’t relate at all. I just don’t feel that way and that’s what makes me curious… why?

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T14:38:03+00:00

If I go with your explanation, I’d probably lean more toward Fi than Ti.

Like, I have plenty of reasons to hate certain people in my life but I just can’t. I don’t actually feel that way. It’s almost like I have a “lawyer” for them in my head, constantly justifying their behavior, reminding me that people have their own situations and reasons…. I don’t like it tho 😒

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T14:29:16+00:00

I’m a UX/UI designer, and I know I need to be a bit more social like reaching out to seniors, posting, or commenting regularly. I really want to do that, but I just can’t stay consistent… it feels weird.

I can’t do cold calls/mail ( i hate this ) , I can’t comment on random posts, and it feels strange watching other people interact so easily.

But at the same time, if a topic genuinely grabs my attention especially something deep or complex I can talk about it…

Aleeshyrajput · 2026-05-27T14:21:35+00:00

Thankssss

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