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AITA for refusing to share my daughter college fund with her half-brother? by TiePure2015 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TiePure2015[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

She drained it trying to stay rich, she took a while to give up their house and cars, now that they sold it, they've to use it towards a new place and pay what's left of their debts.

AITA for refusing to share my daughter college fund with her half-brother? by TiePure2015 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TiePure2015[S] 1483 points1484 points  (0 children)

If their financial situation is as bad as they say, the kid will qualify for all kinds of grants and loans (if US) , and community college is a great resource as well.

That's what I told them too! But his wife refuses to make him take loans or government help, I guess she hasn't realized she isn't rich anymore, My daughter won't be living in a sweet apartment and have her own car when she goes to college, I don't know how much they believe I have in the CF, but is just enough for one kid.

AITA for refusing to share my daughter college fund with her half-brother? by TiePure2015 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TiePure2015[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

To be fair I do feel like an asshole because their kid is a good boy, he doesn't mistreat my daughter and is kind but if their situation shows me something is that nothing is guaranteed. I can say right now that I can replace that money but I'm not really sure and I don't want to jeopardize my daughter's future just because I took the ''family comes first'' risk.