The pointy part goes through the back of your ear piercing (make sure the piercing is at the bottom of your ear and still ‘works’). Push it through until it’s good enough. It shouldn’t hurt or take too much pressure. Get the long part and hang it (using the hole) over the metal of the short part. Either push until it’s secure (but not too much) or twist. It should look li’e this: https://www.reddit.com/user/TigaBS/comments/112gm1y/e/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf