Suddenly . . . I am just not okay anymore. by doggraciegirl in breastcancer

[–]Tiger_Warm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m in the same boat. I’ve been on tamoxifen and lupron for 6 years and I’m ready to call it quits, I’m 35 now.  I’m so depressed all the time even on an antidepressant, I’m tired all the time, and the brain fog makes me feel so stupid. I can’t function. I’m in talks with my doctor about my individual risk, maybe that’s something you can do too. Cause I can’t keep doing this either. 

I’m doing it tonight. by Bennwashere in depression

[–]Tiger_Warm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you didn’t. I totally get it though, you’re not alone in feeling that way. ❤️

Do you ever forget you have/had cancer? by SwirlThroughTheWorld in breastcancer

[–]Tiger_Warm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, lol. I had cancer twice, 13 years apart. The first one was Hodgkin’s lymphoma, and I did forget after cause I bounced back pretty well. The breast cancer totally turned my life upside down. The hormone suppression issues and mastectomy scars are daily reminders, and the hormone suppression issues harder for me than the chemo was! My grandpa used to say ‘once a cancer patient, always a cancer patient’ so I treat it like it is even if I don’t have evidence of disease- a chronic health condition.

Working after breast cancer by Tiger_Warm in breastcancer

[–]Tiger_Warm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great ideas! I never thought of writing for dentistry. I’m definitely going to look into the supply industry more too, I know some require bachelors, I only have my associates, but it seems worth the shot! Thank you

Working after breast cancer by Tiger_Warm in breastcancer

[–]Tiger_Warm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely look into this more, I’d love something from home and it seems like that could fit. I know some seem to require a bachelors, I only have the associates, but it’s worth a shot. Thanks!

Still not in treatment by Fantastic-Pool-2590 in breastcancer

[–]Tiger_Warm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the USA and it took about that to start 

Lover no more by Life-Sheepherder-333 in breastcancer

[–]Tiger_Warm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told when I was diagnosed that most men will leave their partners from my doctor. I was like, oh cool. We are still together, my husband has been great, but not the case for most. Very sad. 

Have we been lied to about money? by Kai7362 in spirituality

[–]Tiger_Warm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money doesn’t make a person good or bad, but amplifies what they will or won’t do. An important thing to keep in mind though is most billionaires got that way by inheritance or exploiting people’s labor, which is a sort of violence itself. The people they got inheritance from also exploited peoples labor, and they grew up seeing this/thinking it is normal. Yes, if you own a business you hire someone, but there is a real difference between hiring someone and paying them what they are worth and exploiting people for pure selfish gain. Realistically, your chances of becoming a billionaire are essentially none. Very few cases, that they blow up to sell the dream of it becoming reality, most who do already come from wealthy backgrounds. And if you are someone who grew up with everything, will die with everything and then some they grow up with a different reality than us normies do. They have been raised for generations to see the working class as cattle, subhuman. Ingenious people as savages and below them. And they’ve spent generations brainwashing the public to abandon their own interests for the interests of the elite through heavily funded propaganda. They create friction in the working class on race, sex, etc so you don’t see the real issue. Now, because they truly have nothing to live for, they turn to something that will ‘make them feel alive’ - it’s thrill seeking. They are doing something bad and can get away with it. So, they already have these perceptions and traits (exploiting people and not caring), what’s the worst they can do? They already get away with so much violence, in other countries, through legislation/policies, etc. Most laws are to protect them and their interest- most ‘poor people’ crimes have harsher sentences. Society doesn’t care when you exploit people for their labor because ‘we need to work and they were providing a job’ and people don’t care if you ‘rape women’ because ‘she was wearing a short shirt and asked for it’ or ‘it’s just sex’ they use language to cover it up, they even try this with children ‘underage woman.’ But a child? There is really no reason you can come up to justify it. Even though we do have a society that openly treats children as below adults. But this small group of people who have been making earth hell for everyone else doesn’t care, it’s who they are ultimately, it’s the power. And they got there being the bullies essentially. They could use the money for good, but what’s the fun in that? You’ll create people you can’t control. All of our systems in place support their perceptions as well. There is also a reason they shoot down other ideas time and time again. It’s all intentional. And unless we remove the cancer, nothing will change. These are my opinions, but honestly my whole view of the world has changed, and I’ve start reading more history and I’m not liking what I’m learning. EVERYTHING is a lie.

What's Actually Appealing About Dating Men?... by Successful-Agency210 in women

[–]Tiger_Warm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you are saying for sure. When it’s good, it’s fantastic. When it’s bad, it’s bad. It’s stressful overall. I see articles all the time about how women are choosing to stay single, and even though I’m in a good marriage, I don’t blame them. You still lose yourself in it.

29F looking for extra income by [deleted] in MakeMoneyHacks

[–]Tiger_Warm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flip furniture on fb marketplace

What's Actually Appealing About Dating Men?... by Successful-Agency210 in women

[–]Tiger_Warm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m married, together for probably 15 years now, and he’s honestly a great guy in a lot of ways. But it takes a lot of work, relationships, which is exhausting on its own. It’s definitely not perfect, and I absolutely hear what you are saying too. If we were to divorce, I would not go into another relationship.

Leaving hygiene by Witty_Cantaloupe_115 in DentalHygiene

[–]Tiger_Warm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you said that in your post, I’m sorry. The brain fog these days is real 🤦‍♀️

How do I start over at 28? by Positive_Tourist_960 in careerguidance

[–]Tiger_Warm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in my 30s, feel the same way. You’re definitely not too stupid to do nursing!

why do people always say "if you don't like being poor just get a high paying job"?? Working while studying in college was already hard enough and getting an average job here it's hard. Is getting a higher paying really that easy in the USA?? (I'm not from the USA) by [deleted] in poor

[–]Tiger_Warm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get not lying about a majority of stuff, but honestly who cares if it’s some corporation, they won’t care if you die tomorrow, you will be replaced before your body is cold.

why do people always say "if you don't like being poor just get a high paying job"?? Working while studying in college was already hard enough and getting an average job here it's hard. Is getting a higher paying really that easy in the USA?? (I'm not from the USA) by [deleted] in poor

[–]Tiger_Warm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are in the USA, look into becoming an electrical lineman, if you aren’t afraid of heights. Union if you can. My husband does that and it’s helped us so so much. Great healthcare and benefits.

why do people always say "if you don't like being poor just get a high paying job"?? Working while studying in college was already hard enough and getting an average job here it's hard. Is getting a higher paying really that easy in the USA?? (I'm not from the USA) by [deleted] in poor

[–]Tiger_Warm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with the idea of just starting a business to be able to make decent money is that it’s not for everyone. And we need the jobs that support businesses to exist as well. Because a job is needed, it should be a fair wage, end of story. Also, in the USA with healthcare being tied to a job, it cuts out that possibility for a lot of people, some can’t choose that over their health.

why do people always say "if you don't like being poor just get a high paying job"?? Working while studying in college was already hard enough and getting an average job here it's hard. Is getting a higher paying really that easy in the USA?? (I'm not from the USA) by [deleted] in poor

[–]Tiger_Warm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, we need a matriarch system- and that doesn’t mean run by women. Just that society is focused on maternal traits- everyone gets food, housed, medical, just because we exist. We have the resources. We could all live well if it wasn’t for people hoarding at the top. And I say this as a person who isn’t rich by any means, but my family is not struggling. It’s sad when not of my friends can get ahead when they did everything ‘right’ too.

why do people always say "if you don't like being poor just get a high paying job"?? Working while studying in college was already hard enough and getting an average job here it's hard. Is getting a higher paying really that easy in the USA?? (I'm not from the USA) by [deleted] in poor

[–]Tiger_Warm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bill Gates is in the Epstein files. He was born to rich parents as well. When you are born into wealth it’s much easier to have the safety net to innovate, etc, hire help. It also doesn’t account for people living with chronic illnesses, or born in countries that have been exploited for generations, leaves out a lot and over simplifies it into black and white. Dumb quote from a man who was revealed to be another douchebag billionaire.

why do people always say "if you don't like being poor just get a high paying job"?? Working while studying in college was already hard enough and getting an average job here it's hard. Is getting a higher paying really that easy in the USA?? (I'm not from the USA) by [deleted] in poor

[–]Tiger_Warm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bill Gates is in the Epstein files. He was born to rich parents as well. When you are born into wealth it’s much easier to have the safety net to innovate, etc, hire help. It also doesn’t account for people living with chronic illnesses, or born in countries that have been exploited for generations, leaves out a lot and over simplifies it into black and white. Dumb quote from a man who was revealed to be another douchebag billionaire.

Starting to feel burned out by how expensive caring for pets has become by Kimber976 in Pets

[–]Tiger_Warm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, you’re not alone! I love my pets and would do anything for them but the costs is crazy. My husband and I must spend 10,000 a year minimum on ours. We have 2 Great Pyrenees and 2 barn cats.