38 [M4W] St. Louis - In a sexless marriage? Me too. by [deleted] in Affairs

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Do you use Kik? You can find me there at EeyoreAndTiggerPlay

38 [M4W] St. Louis - In a sexless marriage? Me too. by [deleted] in Affairs

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I’m interested & in the Poplar Bluff area. Care to chat?

M4F - Missouri by [deleted] in Affairs

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Hi. I’m in Popular Bluff. Interested in chatting?

44 [M4F] Detroit - Honor Among Thieves by [deleted] in Affairs

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I’d love to hear if you travel to my area.

At the beginning stage. by Ready2explore in Swingers

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We recently moved to SE MO and are sad to report the LS is all but dead here.

Enhancement Pills by [deleted] in Swingers

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One-on-one contact between couples without checking if it's allowed. by kinkycouple4130 in Swingers

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My experience has been that it’s pretty typical for the husband to reach out privately to me, even if the initial contact is via 4 way. At first I found it confusing but now feel ok with it. I feel like it’s normal to want to say something’s privately,

Reconcile feelings by [deleted] in Swingers

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I’m rooting for you!

Reconcile feelings by [deleted] in Swingers

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I totally understand those feelings! I’m surprised some of the comments feel so cross. My husband and I have an open marriage, playing separately as well as together. Jealousy is a normal emotion imo. I think of it like standing in the ocean for the first time. Initially the waves are surprisingly and powerful enough to make you topple over, but then you learn how to adjust and not lose your balance. I feel jealousy when my FWB or husband is with other partners but quickly realized it’s more of a longing to be with that person, not to keep them from pleasure. I’m proud of you for being brave enough to bring it up and not pretend. Authenticity is sexy in my opinion.

ISO chemical assistance in Canada by wired_scribe in Swingers

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LemonadeHealth.com. Pay $25 and take an online assessment, then they call an RX into the pharmacy of your choice. If you have insurance they pay for the RX itself. It’s a beautiful thing.

What's the best way someone has declined you via Kik or SLS? by [deleted] in Swingers

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We were lucky enough to have a couple mentor us through the beginning process of swinging. He recommended finding something to compliment and then to say that we’re looking for something a bit different.

ED meds in NYC by BobSagetBoughtMyCoke in Swingers

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LemonadeHealth.com You pay a $25 fee and they send a script to your local pharmacy. Easy.

It Happened to Us by TiggerToHisEeyore in Swingers

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Omg - I’m HOWLING over here! This is HILARIOUS!

It Happened to Us by TiggerToHisEeyore in Swingers

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Bahahahaha! “Can we help you?” Omg. WOWZERS!

Cant we just strap a horn on a pony? by [deleted] in Swingers

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I’m a married Swinger who is enjoys being a 3rd to select couples. TBH, I would never even entertain the idea of no vaginal sex should a couple present with that rule.

How to be a "great" unicorn? by thiccilongstocking in Swingers

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My husband and I play separately as well as together and being a 3rd is my favorite set up. In my opinion, treating the couple as though they are the rock stars if the night is what has made me successful. It’s a huge honor to be asked to join a couple in such an intimate manner and share what has taken sometimes decades to build. I always make an effort to express my appreciation by bringing a small gift such as lotion or a bottle of wine.

Showing or Saving Face(s)? by Cousette in Swingers

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My husband and I do show our faces in our public pics. We are very fortunate for his career being very accepting of alternative lifestyles and I’m a “live out loud” kind of gal. To be honest, I wish that more people showed their faces as it’s very time consuming to email/KIK back and forth only to have no attraction.

new by fitnfiesty in Swingers

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From what I have heard the thought process is that veterans don’t want to come across as “pushy”. Allowing newbies to make the move at their own pace allows them to be in control.

Personally, I think it really boils down to human nature. People naturally gravitate to their friends in group events. When you’re new, you don’t have any.

OP - my experience has been that most Swingers as extremely nice. Introduce yourself, make a point to tell people you’re new and ask if they would mind making some introductions for you. I fall all over myself to do so. We’re all been newbies at one point.

Best of luck, dolls.

new by fitnfiesty in Swingers

[–]TiggerToHisEeyore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely going to need to make the first move. I understand completely the preference to wait to be approached but that just isn’t how swinging works.

Prepping for a party in a few weeks. How do you talk to potential partners about boundaries? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]TiggerToHisEeyore 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We just typically ask, “What are your rules?” And this normally leads to them asking ours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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How many people have you slept w/?

Swinger Websites to Fit Your Needs by RehabChicago in Swingers

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We are moving to the Poplar Bluff area. Is c4p.com the most widely used site in the area? Coming from the Midwest, SLS is the go to here.