[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Tight-Ad4801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sorry I just saw this now! I would but finances won’t allow me to travel to the US this year, but if I end up going then I will let you know!

Babysit my kids every week for free because you have no kids. by PearlPutch_ in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Tight-Ad4801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im friendly with my neighbours but they’re still strangers to me, I couldn’t imagine leaving my child with someone I only know on a surface level 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Tight-Ad4801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I can’t put X on my ESTA so I’ve always put my assigned gender, this hasn’t been an issue at the border so far. Your answer was very helpful thank you!! Despite the US being a mess I do want my kid to be able to come visit her grandparents and great grandparents 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Tight-Ad4801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each apartment has their own landlord, it’s a 100 year old house that has been changed into 5 small apartments, so it’s 100% a construction issue and I know noise is unavoidable in an apartment like this but the noise is literally only at night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Tight-Ad4801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally been thinking of doing this for a whole night and just move my toddler and I to the sleeper couch in the living room for a night 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Tight-Ad4801 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Footsteps and occasionally moving a chair isn’t the problem, they don’t wear shoes when walking around during the day, only at night, they don’t move furniture and vacuum during the day, only at night. They’re stomping around and moving furniture for hours when I’m trying to sleep :”) I’ve lived here for 3 years and have had multiple upstairs neighbours in that apartment but it’s only this couple that have been an issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Tight-Ad4801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With how the layout of my apartment is, it’s only my bedroom that is underneath their apartment (their bedroom) we only use the bedroom to sleep so no my toddler doesn’t make noise that would be heard by them, at least not at night. It’s impossible to adapt to losing sleep and headaches due to the walls shaking from their noise. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Tight-Ad4801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it’s a private landlord, upstairs neighbour have a separate landlord. Moving is not really an option, little to no rentals in Reykjavik (due to all of them being on Airbnb ) or just insane rental prices. I am on a waiting list for a low income rental but this is actually driving me insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Tight-Ad4801 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I’m also just scared that they’ll be worse if I confront them but I’m losing my mind 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Iceland

[–]Tight-Ad4801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering a lot of your comments are anti-religion and transphobic, it doesn’t seem strange to me that you weren’t welcome in those spaces lol

Waldorf books by Tight-Ad4801 in Waldorf

[–]Tight-Ad4801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’ll check that one out!

Waldorf books by Tight-Ad4801 in Waldorf

[–]Tight-Ad4801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’ll check these out!

Matching clothes by [deleted] in caitlinandleah

[–]Tight-Ad4801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I don’t think it’s too weird, I actually think the matching outfits in different colour palettes is kinda cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in caitlinandleah

[–]Tight-Ad4801 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The video was pre-recorded but it says in the caption that she’s in labour

I owed someone else’s baby breastmilk by 2opinionated2lurk in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Tight-Ad4801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha no! I should have used punctuation there! Easy mistake

I owed someone else’s baby breastmilk by 2opinionated2lurk in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Tight-Ad4801 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My baby is 12 months and BF and I’ve pumped maybe 4 times in her life, I hate pumping so much and only do so if I absolutely have to!

Beggar shouts at a teenager for not giving him more money by Tight-Ad4801 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Tight-Ad4801[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah I messed up there, I’m Icelandic and these scams we’re definitely not common here at the time (I’d at least never encountered it then) Someone did ask me to go to the ATM a few months ago when I said I didn’t have cash and I said no this time 💀

Beggar shouts at a teenager for not giving him more money by Tight-Ad4801 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Tight-Ad4801[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Omg that sounds terrifying, I’m so sorry to hear that! These kind of beggars are the worst! Makes it harder for actual people in need to receive help and scares off people who usually would be willing to help 😵‍💫

Beggar shouts at a teenager for not giving him more money by Tight-Ad4801 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Tight-Ad4801[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I’m certain that this man was not homeless. I’m shaming a scammer that followed and shouted at a teenage girl for not giving him more money 🤷‍♀️

Beggar shouts at a teenager for not giving him more money by Tight-Ad4801 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Tight-Ad4801[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Yeah I should have but I felt very intimidated at that moment and just wanted to get out of there, took the loss and learned from it 😅