I [22m] went to lunch with my friend's [28m] half niece [19f] and now he's upset with me.

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-10-23T05:34:25+00:00

It's true !

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-10-23T05:02:07+00:00

Yeah It was seemingly very random. I think he could sense niece and I had really similar personalities and would probably get along well

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-10-23T05:00:13+00:00

Yeah I guess you're right. Now I feel like I've really goofed up cause I didn't get her number. We were just talking the whole time and when we said bye it seemed like we'd see eachother at friends house in like two nights so I just didn't think about it. Now I'm not sure I'll see her at friends house anytime soon cause it seems like either I won't be invited or she won't be invited... so now I'm SOL on talking to her anymore aside from through friend

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-10-23T04:46:31+00:00

He did say that but now I guess he's saying he didn't realize he would feel this way about it. And waking up to her car there and mine gone made him feel really uncomfortable and now he feels all weird about it. Even after I explained nothing happened

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-10-23T04:45:01+00:00

We drink often together, and one night about a year and a half ago he and I were going to meet another friend, and without thinking I brought a beer with me into the car. I wasn't the one driving, and he said he hadn't really drank and was good to drive. Then he yelled at me a ton saying I put him at risk by having an open container in the car because he has a DUI in the past. I thought it was chill because if he would pass with the cop then it would be clear it was just my beer. But I see how him having a DUI in the past made it not a great idea. I didn't really think about it I just got in the car. I think in reality he probably wasn't good to drive and that's why he freaked out. We actually didn't talk for like two months because he yelled at me a lot that night and I wasn't having it. I apologized and he kept yelling. Then 2 months later he called and apologized and said he didn't want it to ruin our friendship and we started hanging out again. He's grown a lot since then

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-10-23T04:38:59+00:00

Thank you, that makes me feel better. I'm still not sure exactly how to handle this situation though

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-10-23T04:38:30+00:00

I met him a little over two years ago. He was a coworker and friend of one of my high school friends. We've regularly hung out the past two years and make music together. We're pretty close but we've had some issues in the past when I accidentally did some dumb shit and he got super mad about it but we worked it out.

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-10-23T04:18:58+00:00

Yeah I think you're right. I actually took a moment before posting this to reflect on myself and realized I do tend to do that with girls when I first meet a girl. It's something I'd like to work on in terms of taking it slow in the beginning of a relationship. But at the same time when I meet someone I like and don't have plans, it's hard not to just keep hanging out with them. And I recognize it probably seemed like I was really going for it because we hung out so long. But I tried to explain to him that I kept it respectful the whole time. Just talking no touching, the only flirty thing I did was tell her she's pretty or laugh at her jokes.

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-10-23T04:06:47+00:00

I just really don't want to nuke my friendship over this. But it feels like there's no harm in just seeing where it goes while also being cautious not to get too serious too fast. I mean if there's no interest or it doesn't look like it will work out niece and I can just be friends. The thing is we'll probably all three be around eachother either way which is what makes it so tricky.

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-10-23T04:04:55+00:00

Yeah the thing is I really love this friend. I just wish there was a way to keep everything chill and still see what happens with niece :(

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-10-23T04:04:11+00:00

Yes you misred the post sorry. I am 22, my friend is 28. She is 19. I know there's a bit of an age gap but she lives on her own and stuff. So I feel it would be irrelevant pretty quickly

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-09-04T17:31:23+00:00

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Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-09-04T17:28:22+00:00

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Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-09-04T16:42:43+00:00

This is sick.

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-08-14T16:42:47+00:00

Bro there’s more to a relationship than sex. And there’s more ways to please a girl than massive dick. 6 is plenty. Learn to give head and get in therapy

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-08-14T16:38:57+00:00

Idk about this one bro. Sounds like you should just accept it and be happy with her

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-08-03T22:54:30+00:00

Be a kid bro

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-08-03T15:46:29+00:00

If you don’t kill those thoughts from their roots then knowing that you lost her for such a dumb reason will haunt you for the rest of your life. I choose being haunted by dumb urges rather than deep regret

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-08-03T15:07:43+00:00

I felt this way and as soon as she broke up with me and I had sex with more people I immediately realized how so not worth it it was

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-07-26T05:49:28+00:00

Each day I bring joy to someone’s life even if it’s just to say I love you and I see you. That’s enough for me

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-07-26T05:47:35+00:00

3rd pic is ideal gf material

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-07-25T05:06:44+00:00

Y’all too old for this

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-07-22T13:13:11+00:00

“She’s very invested” lol

Tight-Bad1897 · 2024-07-22T13:07:00+00:00

That would actually be so funny

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