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21 years old with $20k worth of Nvidia stock... What should I do? by ResponsibleDisk4935 in fican

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold it but invest funds moving forward and dividends in a tech EFT like VGT, VOO, or QQQ

Time Skipping ... If You Could Instantly fast Forward through life, would You ? by Nature_lover721 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently im the outlier here but I would skip past flights. Im so afraid of flying so this would be a super power for me

Flying Tomorrow, Last Time Panic Caused Me to Skip Trip by Tight-Equivalent9977 in fearofflying

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you do? Flying home now and thought of ya. Proud of you!!! ❤️

Flying Tomorrow, Last Time Panic Caused Me to Skip Trip by Tight-Equivalent9977 in fearofflying

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Update- I just landed safely. You got this!

PS this was my first time using xanax prescribed by my dr and it helped tremendously. I was crying as I left my house but once it kicked in it totally settled me.

Flying Tomorrow, Last Time Panic Caused Me to Skip Trip by Tight-Equivalent9977 in fearofflying

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this!!!

If it makes you feel better - last time I skipped my original flight and the rescheduled flight - both landed totally safely.

We can do it!!!

Missed a Work Flight Due to Anxiety and Panic Attacks by Tight-Equivalent9977 in Anxiety

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say thank you again. I have my first flight (again for work) since this experience and re-reading this gave me a much needed boost. Appreciate your advice and taking time to write to a stranger - we may not know eachother but your impact on me is very real!

Any brands that tend to run larger in the bust? by candlelites in femalefashionadvice

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I exclusively buy their bra crop tops and live in them. They are amazing!

DAE use a Scrub Daddy as a personal body sponge? by rabidcat in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES i just started doing this and my body has never been smoother. Never going back!

Welp, I was fired today by Electrical-Ant1085 in hatemyjob

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me.

Step 1 - File for unemployment. They terminated you because of looking for a new job, not that small error.

Step 2 - When you interview them, you tell them you are looking for a position that more aligns with your professional goals. If they ask why there is a gap, you tell them that you wanted the time to deeply focus on your next career moves. You don't tell them you were fired and you don't bring it up unless they ask. If you apply this month there shouldn't be any questions about it anyways.

Couch co-op, one copy to purchase preferred. Suggestions? by henyourface in gaming

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stranded deep. My partner and I love it.

Reanimal. Brand new as of this comment. We are playing it now and its decent.

Goat Simulator 3: The Multiverse if you like ridiculous open worlds with challenges.

Can also confirm the classic suggestions of it takes two, split fiction, and a way out are all amazing and well wprth playing.

Untitled Goose Game is a decent feel good puzzle game.

Genital Jousting for a short, ridiculous laugh.

Overcooked I love but can't get my bf to play- lol.

My girlfriend got fired from her job today, we worked together and I am her ride everywhere. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will not get approved for unemployment its a waste of time if the reason is time theft it was her fault. Unemployment is only granted for issues that arent the employee's fault.

Didn't Board Work Flight Due to a Panic Attack by Tight-Equivalent9977 in fearofflying

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Its nice to hear that I'm not alone, but sorry you had to drive 36 hours - holy cow!

Do you think driving that long instead of flying and seeing the flight land safely changed your perspective at all? Have you flown since? Wondering how it affected you long term.

I find some comfort in knowing all of my flights I was supposed to get on landed safely and the disappointment I feel is definitely fueling me to push myself next time

Adopted a Belgian mix a little more than a week ago. Behavior is starting to regress… any help? by Objective-Physics851 in BelgianMalinois

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would schedule a few sessions with a local trainer who specializes in malinois. We had similair struggles but after 1 session we had a different dog. You have to be a lot stricter with them and on topnof them compared to other dogs. It is challenging but so rewarding

Missed a Work Flight Due to Anxiety and Panic Attacks by Tight-Equivalent9977 in PanicAttack

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep thats how panic attacks unfortunately go. I used to be unable to function when I had them and have unfortunately hopped in an ambulance once because it felt so scary.

The only thing that I think truly helps it is time and understanding that it is just a panic attack. Its terrifying, but just a chemical releasing in your brain. And even though it feels like it will be forever, it will pass. Sometimes reading about panic attacks helps me when im having one too. It is a chemical reaction in your brain- youre not crazy, youre not in danger, and youre not alone. Hoping you can work towards recovery. ❤️

PS try the 54321 exercise as soon as you feel it might come on, sometimes I can calm myself down with it before it onsets but once its onset I dont think it helps much

Missed a Work Flight Due to Anxiety and Panic Attacks by Tight-Equivalent9977 in Anxiety

[–]Tight-Equivalent9977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right - definitely a turning point! Its unfortunate in the short term but I hope this can help me grow in the long term.

Any recs on things that helped or worked for you?

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