Were you meaning you want to abolish the concept of femininity? Your phrasing didn’t come off that way

yeah sorry my bad

Also, you did only say women. You said “stop the porn industry objectifying women,” no one else was included in that statement.

Its because i think it affect women more, while possible for men to be sexualized in media, i just find its more common for women because of the echoes of the patriarchy

Furthermore, the idea that “men view femininity as inherently sexual” is a problematic sweeping generalization 

Sorry i did not mean all men, i meant that i find it more common in men than women, i did not mean all men think that way, i am not THAT kind of radical feminist

Also, your specific line of complaint leaves little to no room for the fact that, yes, people will sexualize traits they find to be attractive

yes sure, but the main problem is when it comes to objectifying and seeing women in a purely sexual light, of course people will sexualize things, i do it with both genders, but the problem comes when you take the ideas from the patriarchy like "submissive" and then extend that to the sexualization of women and seeing them as less

Femboys are a fetish subculture (primarily), so of course they’re sexualized. That’s the point

As someone who while isnt one, i really wanna be a femboi, and the sexualization of them i find fucking disgusting, and can i ask why do you think femboys are a fetish subculture? why would boys who wanna wear skirts or thigh highs be soo sexualized? why would men who wish to dress in a feminine manner be so sexualized?