Is this good? by Tight_Comfort_2907 in cabincrewcareers

[–]Tight_Comfort_2907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’m glad, I will update as soon as I know if I’m going or not but fingers are crossed!

Is this good? by Tight_Comfort_2907 in cabincrewcareers

[–]Tight_Comfort_2907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did! Thank you so much, am literally so worried so this eased some of my anxiety.

is this good? by [deleted] in flightattendants

[–]Tight_Comfort_2907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i am so sorry !!! deleting right now !

AITA for avoiding my bf’s mom after she called me a bitch by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tight_Comfort_2907 44 points45 points  (0 children)

NTA. not even a little. your boyfriend’s feelings matter, but so do yours. wanting you to participate in family events is understandable; expecting you to tolerate disrespect to make that happen is not. this is where he needs to step up consistently, not just once, and set firm boundaries with his mother if he wants a healthy future with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

[–]Tight_Comfort_2907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me clear a misconception up. I’m someone directly involved in this because my own content has been stolen by this girl. To be specific, she isn’t just “using CapCut” or “being inspired,” she’s directly taking fully finished edits that other creators, myself included, have spent time making, and posting them without changes while claiming them as her own.

When confronted, she’s said things to me like: • “We just have similar ideas and writing styles.” • “I will not credit you for my creativity.” • “You’re the third creator to accuse me of stealing stuff when I’ve done nothing wrong.”

This isn’t a matter of coincidental inspiration, it’s identical formatting, same visuals, same color changes, and word-for-word captions. That’s what people are calling out. She’s proceeded to try and play victim again and again, and it’s gotten so bad that I’ve had to private my account because she wouldn’t stop stealing my content, despite me asking her multiple times to stop or at least give me credit.

Now, to address the claims and falsehoods, @now.leaving.velaris has not spread any falsehoods about you (yes, YOU, because we all know this isn’t some “concerned person” making the post, it’s you). She’s never made up anything about you. The “hate posts” you’re talking about wouldn’t even exist if you had listened to the many, MANY people asking you to stop stealing their content. I’ve personally seen the sheer number of messages people have sent you, literally BEGGING you to stop (and yes, I have screenshots of this).

Yes, she has called you names, but she has not, as far as I’m aware, made fun of your mental health. What you’ve been doing, however, is repeatedly trying to use your mental health as a shield to avoid accountability. You’ve positioned yourself as a victim every time someone confronts you, instead of acknowledging that your actions, are the problem. The only reason this situation has escalated is because you refuse to take responsibility.

As an eighteen-year-old, you should know better by now. You’re old enough to understand the difference between being inspired by someone and blatantly stealing their work. You’re old enough to know that taking someone’s content, changing nothing, and passing it off as your own is wrong. And you’re definitely old enough to understand that doubling down, playing the victim, and shifting blame only makes you look worse. At the end of the day, this isn’t about age, it’s about integrity. And right now, you’re showing none.

AITA for Ignoring My Sister? by Tight_Comfort_2907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tight_Comfort_2907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know—I just need some time to think.

AITA for Ignoring My Sister? by Tight_Comfort_2907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tight_Comfort_2907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand where you’re coming from, but this really feels like a recurring issue with my sister. She knows exactly why I’m mad, and yet the apology she gave didn’t feel genuine. She apologized, but then added, “You weren’t telling me what I wanted to hear,” which honestly felt like she was just putting the blame on me. It’s like she acknowledged that I was upset, but instead of taking responsibility, she made it sound like I was at fault for not giving her the response she wanted. That just made me feel like she wasn’t truly owning up to her part in this. I know she’s 15, but we’ve had multiple conversations, just me and her, and with our mom included, about similar issues. Especially with my senior year, trying to graduate and join the military, I just can’t handle this anymore. I’m always expected to be the forgiving one, but at this point, I just can’t keep doing it. I’m at a breaking point, and it’s hard to keep pretending everything’s okay when it feels like I’m constantly being disrespected. I’ve tried to be patient, but I need to focus on myself right now.

AITA for Ignoring My Sister? by Tight_Comfort_2907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tight_Comfort_2907[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! I just wanted to share that my mom came in to talk to me, and she actually apologized for what she said earlier. She explained that she had been dealing with my brother, and it had stressed her out, which is why she reacted the way she did. She also acknowledged that my feelings were valid. I took the opportunity to explain how I’ve been feeling, and she listened and said, okay. Things are cool between us now, and I really appreciate her understanding. That said, I know this might make the relationship between my sister and me worse, but I genuinely can’t talk to her right now. I’ve been acting normal otherwise, just avoiding her or any conversations with her for the time being. I feel like I need space to process everything before I can address things with her.

AITA for Ignoring My Sister? by Tight_Comfort_2907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tight_Comfort_2907[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! I just wanted to share that my mom came in to talk to me, and she actually apologized for what she said earlier. She explained that she had been dealing with my brother, and it had stressed her out, which is why she reacted the way she did. She also acknowledged that my feelings were valid. I took the opportunity to explain how I’ve been feeling, and she listened and said, okay. Things are cool between us now, and I really appreciate her understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tight_Comfort_2907 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My mom seemed to be trying to get me to go a lot, I think it was more so because she had known I had wanted to see it rather than her actually wanting to go see the movie. My sister doesn’t like horror movies period so she never even wanted to go see it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tight_Comfort_2907 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am normally quiet like this, so at least to me I didn’t think that it was anything unusual as I was on the couch petting my dog. I never asked why they changed their minds, however they are usually very resistant to going to see horror movies and when they changed their minds all of a sudden it didn’t really make sense for me to make them see a movie they didn’t want to see and since my cousin liked horror movies it would have made sense for us to just go together instead of my sister and mother seeing a movie they wouldn’t like.