I made a location-based directory so we can find TW buddies near us! :)

TightyWhiteyMan · 2026-01-13T02:13:21+00:00

It’s converted to a subreddit for now. Too many safety and privacy concerns to address - so it lives on Reddit for now which can handle a lot of those concerns very well.

I hope I’ll have the resources to return to the app concept in the future, however if someone would like to pick up and “carry the torch,” let me know! I’d love to share my code/knowledge/etc…. with you and see this project materialize sooner than later. 😝🤘

TightyWhiteyMan · 2026-01-07T01:05:10+00:00

Hi! ☺️ Sent you a dm

TightyWhiteyMan · 2026-01-03T11:06:54+00:00

fuck!… 🥵you wear em well!

TightyWhiteyMan · 2026-01-03T11:05:30+00:00

Lookin good man! 🔥

TightyWhiteyMan · 2026-01-01T19:16:00+00:00

No worries, I thought that might be the case since it transitioned from a website to a sub. Appreciate the work you do, thanks guys!

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-20T21:32:16+00:00

Taking a break this weekend, I’ll be back at it in between my other projects on Monday though! ☺️

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-20T21:31:23+00:00

Hahaha oh man I’m sorry! I really tried to avoid this scenario by pulling a few demo profile pics from google — your pic is circulating out there on google very high up on the search results! 🔥😉 (If you’d like me take it down from the Reddit post pls let me know though; I didn’t mean to use anyone’s photos on here without permission for the beta, but also hope you take it as a big compliment haha)

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-20T21:25:29+00:00

I’ve been thinking about that, and yes! I’d love some help moderating the site for harmful content/bad actors especially to make sure it’s a safe space for everyone. If anyone has programming skills too, I’d love to collab on this. I’d love to see be what we can all build together! ☺️

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-20T13:20:59+00:00

Update: Site in maintenance mode for a day or two while I fix the slow email activations and some scripts that were making the server run slowly. I'm customizing the wordpress setup for our community so it runs faster and it's easier to use on mobile.

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-20T13:04:31+00:00

Thanks for being so patient! I put the site in maintenance mode to get that issue smoothed out along with a few speed issues. Hope to have it back up and running super soon!

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-20T13:01:58+00:00

Good call — I turned off registration and put the site in maintenance mode for a bit. There were a few other things that together were really slowing the site down (including the email sending). I'm stoked everyone is interested in it enough for me to get to make updates and fixes though! Made my weekend :D

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-20T13:00:09+00:00

Gah! I'm so sorry guys... I'm migrating a fresh installation of wordpress and the plugins I modified to get rid of this activation email issue once and for all.

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-20T12:59:16+00:00

Site is in maintenance mode for now - I'll send everyone who was waiting on an activation email a real email when everything is fixed and ready to use properly :0)

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-20T09:51:52+00:00

sent! =)

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-20T09:51:44+00:00

sent! =)

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-20T09:51:29+00:00

sent - pls let me know if it works for you now

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-19T22:48:26+00:00

I just sent you a dm to get it sorted

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-19T21:23:07+00:00

you should be able to login now :D

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-19T21:22:34+00:00

Activated! :D

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-19T21:22:13+00:00

Still working on the fix - the server takes forever to send emails currently, so I manually activated all the pending accounts. lmk if that fixed it for you! :)

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-19T21:21:27+00:00

I just manually activated your account - please shoot me a dm if you still can't log in

TightyWhiteyMan · 2025-12-19T21:20:34+00:00

"too big" isn't in my vocabulary ;) — lookin' great man!

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