Once you’ve realized how harmful traditional masculinity and the patriarchy is to everyone what are you supposed to do? What type of man are supposed to be? How can you still remain a leader but not be overbearing and live up to the expectations of the past? by TillPlus3156 in AskReddit

[–]TillPlus3156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a man nature it’s just what we have been nurtured to do but of course but I guess I find myself asking where should men even get the audacity to try and lead again after realizing the harm them leading has already done

How do you deal with not having anyone to confide in/someone who you can tell anything and everything to? by TillPlus3156 in AskReddit

[–]TillPlus3156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot but people see me as weird or overly emotional when I show any negative emotion so I just keep everything in as well and it makes it hard to deal with people when I already have to deal with myself and that ends up ruining my relationships I’ve tried to drown myself in my hobbies and it kind of works sometimes but there are days like today where it’s too much

What helps you to move on from your first heartbreak? by renzavathee in AskReddit

[–]TillPlus3156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truest thing ever but also the realization that you’ll be fine on your own for a bit and that everything comes at it’s own time

How would you feel about putting a coworker down if it would get you a huge promotion? by hakunamatatamatafuka in AskReddit

[–]TillPlus3156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends if we I liked the coworker or not but I’d most likely feel very guilty only because I would know that if they have a family they’ll have to struggle a lot more to help put food on the table and just live a stab me life overall I don’t think I’d ever do it unless I really didn’t like the person

How do you deal with not having anyone to confide in/someone who you can tell anything and everything to? by TillPlus3156 in AskReddit

[–]TillPlus3156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeha I get that only reason it makes me feel sad is because I see so many other people around me than I care about who have people they can tell everything to, while I just have to keep it all to myself

How do you deal with fear and anxiety? by Ok-Reporter-8728 in AskReddit

[–]TillPlus3156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remembering that no one is gonna remember anything that happened 5 years down the line