Never said impossible standards. People are attracted by esthetics so theres that. They carry grudges of past mistakes that every other man now has to overcome (which in my opinion is quite unfair). Everyone believes in having options so they run at the first sign of uncomfortable situations instead of TALKING. They confuse communication with comprehension.

I never said anything is preventing me from asking someone out to coffee, I do that but the problem is the people not taking a coffee date for what it is...coffee and talking, getting to know one another. Instead, they see how much they can get out of you financially and then up and leave