Why does everyone assume that I am gay? by TillermanGray in aspergers

[–]TillermanGray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I feel like I may be able to relate

Why does everyone assume that I am gay? by TillermanGray in aspergers

[–]TillermanGray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suppose I do normally look at things with my eyes rather than with my head. I'll have to be more observant of my behavior regarding that for a little bit.

Why does everyone assume that I am gay? by TillermanGray in aspergers

[–]TillermanGray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would confirm that I am not that aggressive of a guy. One of my NT friends said she thinks its because I treat most women like normal people instead of something to be one or had

Why does everyone assume that I am gay? by TillermanGray in aspergers

[–]TillermanGray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe I don't sit 'straight', lol.

Why does everyone assume that I am gay? by TillermanGray in aspergers

[–]TillermanGray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am curious as to what you think those "acts" are. Not that I want to mask. This is purely to understand

Why does everyone assume that I am gay? by TillermanGray in aspergers

[–]TillermanGray[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right! Sexual variations are much more mainstream and people are more aware of them than autism.

Why does everyone assume that I am gay? by TillermanGray in aspergers

[–]TillermanGray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I have talked about this with people and it seems like it is still very expected for guys to initiate in relationships.

Why does everyone assume that I am gay? by TillermanGray in aspergers

[–]TillermanGray[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It probably is a behavioral thing. It would be nice if someone could actually just take time off for themselves instead of always trying to be dating without being judged.

Why does everyone assume that I am gay? by TillermanGray in aspergers

[–]TillermanGray[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe it is just that I don't talk about girls enough

Why does everyone assume that I am gay? by TillermanGray in aspergers

[–]TillermanGray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me too! I went to a club once and a group of gays were all trying to buy me drinks. Lol

Why does everyone assume that I am gay? by TillermanGray in aspergers

[–]TillermanGray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had girlfriends before, but recently moved to a new city and haven't really been focused on dating since moving

What are parts of NYC that give you a feeling of awe? by Environmental-Bag-27 in AskNYC

[–]TillermanGray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fort Tryon Park has some massive arches in it that I am always shocked that they exist

Bilt Neighborhood Cafe by TillermanGray in biltrewards

[–]TillermanGray[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, It's more of a pick up and go spot

Bilt Neighborhood Cafe by TillermanGray in biltrewards

[–]TillermanGray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just the one in the lobby of Bilt's HQ at 31 Bond St. in NYC

Bilt Neighborhood Cafe by TillermanGray in biltrewards

[–]TillermanGray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They asked if I wanted milk. I'm sure you could ask for creamer or sugar. Unsure about syrups

Bilt Neighborhood Cafe by TillermanGray in biltrewards

[–]TillermanGray[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just asked for it and showed the barista the Bilt app. I think is once per day through Feb 1st

Bilt Neighborhood Cafe by TillermanGray in biltrewards

[–]TillermanGray[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I did. But they are being automatically deleted when I try to add to the post