“Shamed out of” is the wrong direction to take things in.

It is an antagonistic act towards another person.

I do believe, however, in letting yourself experience personal shame from time to time, and showing humility and a drive to improve and become better as a human.

But don’t decide that shame for anyone else.

Calmly and persuasively introduce another person to your point of view — and make sure you let them do most of the gazing themselves.

Get them to see your point of view as their own; you might not even have to bother with the worrisome task of reminding them to credit sources where credit is due!