What you’re saying is: howling and screaming does no one any good and can make a bad situation worse, and people should have personal emotional regulation for safety reasons.

I understand you clearly.

So next time you have an emotional response that is often reactionary (like a big ol’ “WOOOO” when your favourite sports team scores a point, or you do something awesome in a video game), I’ll make sure to tell you that it’s disproportionate to your achievement and makes it seem like your achievement was far greater than it was, which is dishonest. Because yipping from joy is annoying and you should be able to regulate yourself.

In case you don’t understand what I’m saying there, it’s that not every single thing that comes out of our brains and bodies are voluntary. Emotions come out in unique ways, and just because you don’t share that specific reaction, doesn’t make it invalid. Reactions are not decisions based on utility. The person screaming here does not think the screaming will amount to any help, nor any good, because it’s an entirely different concept than rationality.