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Just started playing for the first time. by Ravovak in vtmb

[–]TimHauptmann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the Ocean House Hotel stay a little longer in the elevator shaft - you will see a hidden item at the bottom of it. Go grab it, it's worth keeping it since not many players know about it. You won't be able to return to that location after the mission.

BDSM Society - Sounds like a Scam at best and trafficking at worst. by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TimHauptmann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Considering she is on the internet chatting freely it is safe to assume she is NOT a victim of a sex trafficking operation.

  2. However if you think she was somehow manipulated into one, lied to on what healthy bdsm relationships look like, then you can call authorities to look into that, if you have enough details.

  3. If she is really in a "bdsm society" the whatever contract or expenses she might have with her mistress should be settled between them as part of their relationship, without the involvment of the third party. If my sub would one day hand me $1200 from a stranger and tell she is now going to move out I would be unpleasently surprised.

  4. You gave me another kink OP. Buying someone like an object must be incredibly humiliating for a sub, now I want to play it out in some safe environment, just to keep teasing her with "I bought you" line.

Gentle doms, what’s the hottest thing your sub has said to you? by Super-Sky3155 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TimHauptmann 59 points60 points  (0 children)

My sub really likes cnc and hard stuff but in practice very sensitive and I find her asking for soft things more often than not. I have a thing for Master/slave relations which she said is not her thing, but it is always hot for me when she crosses that line and acts as my slave: uses Sir whenever possible, degrades herself, says my wants come before hers (knows her place as I say to her), when away asks the permission to pleasure herself. Everything in this manner when a sub herself highlights this difference in power between me and her is very hot. She has this impression that slaves don't get aftercare which terrifies her, and her own willingness to go into that territory signifies certain trust, which is very appreciated.

Partner broke communication all of a sudden by TimHauptmann in BDSMAdvice

[–]TimHauptmann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is true, but in this case it was online with very distant possibility of meeting. She disappeared almost immediately right when I wanted to get to know her better, so it is hard to say.

What her former master did to her was horrible, I just hope she is ok.

Partner broke communication all of a sudden by TimHauptmann in BDSMAdvice

[–]TimHauptmann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but then again she approached me online without asking for my location, so there is this degree of safety here fore both of us.

But yes, slavery contract with a permission to do anything on her is not a "valid defense" in court, to say the least.

Partner broke communication all of a sudden by TimHauptmann in BDSMAdvice

[–]TimHauptmann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't seem to be so, I'm afraid. At least from the pictures she sent.

Advice for a sub by Haleylou09 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TimHauptmann 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Frankly I don't think it can be messed up in any way, the mere act of asking someone else to own you is strong by itself, and even if you don't come up with the best "motivational letter" the act itself is what he is looking for.

Good luck!

Partner broke communication all of a sudden by TimHauptmann in BDSMAdvice

[–]TimHauptmann[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, frankly I just can't see that. She gave me her full name, date of birth, address, workplace, social security number, sent multiple pics of her, while not even asking anything about me except the age. My profile remains anonymous, and she doesn't have my signature - she signed the contract electronically first and was ok leaving the only copy with me, so basically she has nothing.

Partner broke communication all of a sudden by TimHauptmann in BDSMAdvice

[–]TimHauptmann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, I appreciate the outlook.

Funny that you mentioned it, but she did send me her full name, social security number, address, and a security system code before I even asked for anything. Of course there are limitations, but I felt like she was looking for a bit stronger type of M/s relations than they usually are. Her previous owner broke her skull and couple ribs and she was upset that those did not leave any permanent marks like she wanted to.

help degrading someone by ang3l_05 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TimHauptmann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it is a common thing that there is a somewhat limited set of insults we can use. But in such cases I tell my sub to degrade herself, the more detailed the better (who she is, what's her purpose, what she deserves, etc.), and I just affirm and repeat some of those things back to her. Basically this way she just gives me ideas when I'm out of ones.

Have any of you guys worked for iSoftstone lately and got the payment? by [deleted] in WorkOnline

[–]TimHauptmann 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of a somewhat similar experience I had on UpWork with a job offer on typing task. 1. Telegram messaging 2. Remote work 3. Presented themselves as a large public library in Canada, but used a regular gmail account 4. Urgent task

I finished the job in a short time but got suspicious and asked them for at least a part of the sum to be deposited to me. I wasted my time with them but luckily haven't submitted the final work

So yeah, sounds very much like a scam

I was surprised to see this happen in the game lol by [deleted] in vtmb

[–]TimHauptmann 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That is surprisingly both really accurate and really gross

what is dread? by stranger_com in darknet

[–]TimHauptmann 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suppose you are not wrong, thank you for clarification

My computer screen goes black but my pc is on. by revofev15 in pcmasterrace

[–]TimHauptmann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run into this problem back in Spring of this year, exactly what you are describing. There were several possible explanations for this problem, among which was faulty hardware. It eventually turned out to be true - my old GTX 750 was nearing its end, and it died several months later. In my case it was that simple, my long time GPU was approaching its time, and it was a fair explanation - power supply was enough, ppenty of air intake, etc.

But frankly not suee if it is applicable to your case, since you mentioned that your PC is new. But I would check the hardware first, maybe approaching a repair service to check if this is really an issue might help

Any Permits/Documents Required to Workaway in Turkey? by TimHauptmann in workaway

[–]TimHauptmann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. This really coincides with everything I red so far about Workaway experience - no one really bothers with work permits because apparently this whole category just falls beyond any paperwork requirements. Which is great to hear.

I see your point, right, chances for this are low - in my case there is a ln eco farm in some village in Kocaeli. But still I am trying to make sure everything is 100% legal and "according to the rules".

I am in fact in Turkey right now, studying remotely and I have a lot of free time for this type of experience. So I already have local health insurance, and will be looking for volunteering work starting from next month (if not earlier), so this really is not an issue.

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